Vivian Gornick

Pocas veces en la literatura se ha retratado de manera tan humana, vital y honesta la relación entre una madre y su hija como en Apegos feroces, las memorias de la escritora y activista Vivian Gornick, ahora publicadas por primera vez en español desde que vieran la luz en inglés en 1987. Gornick, una mujer madura, camina con su madre, ya anciana, por las calles de Manhattan, y en el transcurso de esos paseos llenos de reproches, de recuerdos y complicidades, va desgranando el relato de la lucha de una hija por encontrar su propio lugar en el mundo. Desde muy temprano, Gornick se ve influenciada por dos modelos femeninos muy distintos: uno, el de su madre, una mujer neurótica, terca e inteligente que dedica toda su energía al cuidado de su familia, que coloca el amor en el centro de su existencia y renuncia a cualquier otro ideal; el otro, el de Nettie, la joven vecina apasionada, inexperta y dependiente, viuda y madre de un bebé, que sólo se siente segura frente a los hombres, consciente de que es sensualidad en estado puro. Ambas, figuras protagónicas en el mundo plagado de mujeres que es su entorno, representan modelos que la joven Gornick ansía y detesta encarnar, y que determinarán su relación con los hombres, el trabajo y otras mujeres durante el resto de su vida. Ésta es la historia de un vínculo delicado y fatigoso, de un nexo que define y limita al mismo tiempo, pero también es el retrato de una sociedad y una época, y una extensa meditación sobre la experiencia de ser mujer.

"[Approaching Eye Level is] about the day-to-day struggle to face down the brutality of growing loneliness, to accept the limitations of friendship and intimacy, to honor the process of becoming oneself. . . . Vivian Gornick's strength lies in her refusal to give up."-Mary Hawthorne, The New York Times

Quando rileggiamo un libro, gli diamo la possibilità di raccontarci sempre qualcosa di nuovo. Non è un atto di nostalgia ma di creazione, una forma di confronto attivo tra l’io di un tempo e l’io di oggi. In nove saggi che intrecciano in modo magistrale critica letteraria, memoir e biografia, Vivian Gornick celebra la sua passione per la lettura e torna ai libri che l’hanno formata, usandoli come mappa per tracciare i cambiamenti che ha attraversato nel corso della vita. L’autrice rivisita gli autori che ha amato – D.H. Lawrence, Colette, Marguerite Duras, Doris Lessing, Natalia Ginzburg e molti altri – e contempla i nuovi significati di cui le loro opere si sono arricchite.

Cuenta Vivian Gornick que un día comenzó a releer Regrero a Howards End y con gran asombro descubrió que su interpretación de la novela, años después de su primera lectura, era ahora radicalmente distinta. Consciente de que no hay nada como regresar a un lugar que no ha cambiado para descubrir en qué ha cambiado uno mismo, decidió retomar aquellos libros cruciales que la convirtieron en la mujer que es, y releerlos, con el propósito de redescubrirse a sí misma. El resultado es Cuentas pendientes, en el que Vivian Gornick combina sus dos géneros literarios favoritos, la crítica literaria y las memorias, entrelazando las enseñanzas de las lecturas que marcaron su vida con el relato de sus propias experiencias vitales. En nueve paradas, la autora de Apegos feroces relata cómo a lo largo del tiempo fue identificándose con distintos personajes de la novela Hijos y amantes de D. H. Lawrence, analiza el concepto de feminidad en las novelas de Colette, se cuestiona la veracidad de la memoria en El amante de Marguerite Duras, y explica por qué siempre que lee a Natalia Ginzburg ama un poco más la vida. Cuentas pendientes es la celebración de la pasión de Vivian Gornick por la literatura, un homenaje a la lectura como forma de conocerse a uno mismo, una y otra vez, y sentir «el poder de la Vida con mayúsculas». Pero, ante todo, es la oportunidad de reencontrarnos con la Gornick de siempre, con esa voz que tanto amamos y admiramos: perspicaz, sabia y valiente, que sabe mirarse a sí misma sin artificios.

Wir finden zu uns, indem wir anderen begegnen. Vivian Gornick ist eine Suchende, und nichts beruhigt ihr fragendes Herz mehr als ein Fußmarsch durch die schwindelerregenden Straßenschluchten New Yorks. Auf der Suche ist sie nach sich selbst, nach der Frau, die sie sein möchte. Und so sind die alltäglichen Begegnungen ihr Elixier: Aus den Gesprächen auf der Straße erfährt sie von den Schicksalen der anderen und lernt aus deren Überlebenstechniken, sie liebt den Geschmack von Welt auf der Zunge, die Streitbarkeit der Vielfalt und genießt die Wahlfreiheit, die sie als ungebundene Frau in der Stadt hat. »Eine Frau in New York« ist das zutiefst ehrliche Bekenntnis Vivian Gornicks, der Grande Dame der amerikanischen Frauenbewegung, zu einem selbstbestimmten, unkonventionellen Leben, eine mutige Annäherung an das Fremde, eine Ode an wahre Verbundenheit und eine Liebeserklärung an diese kräftezehrende und zugleich so vitalisierende Stadt: New York.

Vivian Gornick lleva años desarrollando un formidable diálogo entre la literatura y la vida. La escritora estadounidense alberga la convicción de que la lectura es una forma de autoconocimiento, y de que leer con la mirada adecuada puede ayudarnos a entender cómo llegamos a ser quienes somos y por qué son como son los tiempos en que vivimos. En este libro, Gornick aborda uno de sus asuntos favoritos, el amor romántico simbolizado por el matrimonio, y lo analiza como uno de los temas clave en la literatura del siglo xx. En un recorrido por la vida y la obra de algunos de los autores que más admira –como Willa Cather, Virginia Woolf, Grace Paley, Richard Ford, Raymond Carver o Jane Smiley–, la autora defiende que nuestro mundo ha cambiado y que el amor y el matrimonio han dejado de ser, en nuestra época, metáforas que representen adecuadamente la felicidad y la realización personal. Con la misma inteligencia, honestidad y agudeza que caracterizan su célebre libro Apegos feroces, e hilvanando una profunda reflexión que se hunde con elegancia tanto en el conocimiento como en lo vivencial, Vivian Gornick nos brinda un libro extraordinario que cuestiona el supuesto poder transformador del amor y nos revela que este, «como la comida o el aire, es necesario pero insuficiente: no puede hacer por nosotros lo que debemos hacer por nosotros mismos».

From the prizewinning Jewish Lives series, a vibrant, deeply human portrait of a woman dedicated to fierce protest against the tyranny of institutions over individuals, by the celebrated author Emma Goldman is the story of a modern radical who took seriously the idea that inner liberation is the first business of social revolution. Her politics, from beginning to end, was based on resistance to that which thwarted the free development of the inner self. The right to stay alive in one’s senses, to enjoy freedom of thought and speech, to reject the arbitrary use of power—these were key demands in the many public protest movements she helped mount. Anarchist par excellence, Goldman is one of the memorable political figures of our time, not because of her gift for theory or analysis or even strategy, but because some extraordinary force of life in her burned, without rest or respite, on behalf of human integrity—and she was able to make the thousands of people who, for decades on end, flocked to her lectures, feel intimately connected to the pain inherent in the abuse of that integrity. To hear Emma describe, in language as magnetic as it was illuminating, what the boot felt like on the neck, was to experience the mythic quality of organized oppression. As the women and men in her audience listened to her, the homeliness of their own small lives became invested with a sense of drama that acted as a catalyst for the wild, vagrant hope that things need not always be as they were. All you had to do, she promised, was resist. In time, she herself would become a world-famous symbol for the spirit of resistance to the power of institutional authority over the lone individual. In Emma Goldman, Vivian Gornick draws a surpassingly intimate and insightful portrait of a woman of heroic proportions whose performance on the stage of history did what Tolstoy said a work of art should do: it made people love life more.

In this deeply etched and haunting memoir, Vivian Gornick tells the story of her lifelong battle with her mother for independence. There have been numerous books about mother and daughter, but none has dealt with this closest of filial relations as directly or as ruthlessly. Gornick's groundbreaking book confronts what Edna O'Brien has called "the prinicpal crux of female despair": the unacknowledged Oedipal nature of the mother-daughter bond. Born and raised in the Bronx, the daughter of "urban peasants," Gornick grows up in a household dominated by her intelligent but uneducated mother's romantic depression over the early death of her husband. Next door lives Nettie, an attractive widow whose calculating sensuality appeals greatly to Vivian. These women with their opposing models of femininity continue, well into adulthood, to affect Gornick's struggle to find herself in love and in work. As Gornick walks with her aged mother through the streets of New York, arguing and remembering the past, each wins the reader's admiration: the caustic and clear-thinking daughter, for her courage and tenacity in really talking to her mother about the most basic issues of their lives, and the still powerful and intuitively-wise old woman, who again and again proves herself her daughter's mother. Unsparing, deeply courageous, Fierce Attachments is one of the most remarkable documents of family feeling that has been written, a classic that helped start the memoir boom and remains one of the most moving examples of the genre.

Vivian Gornick’s Fierce Attachments—hailed by the New York Times for the renowned feminist author’s “mesmerizing, thrilling” truths within its pages—has been selected by the publication’s book critics as the #1 Best Memoir of the Past 50 Years.In this deeply etched and haunting memoir, Vivian Gornick tells the story of her lifelong battle with her mother for independence. There have been numerous books about mother and daughter, but none has dealt with this closest of filial relations as directly or as ruthlessly. Gornick’s groundbreaking book confronts what Edna O’Brien has called “the principal crux of female despair”: the unacknowledged Oedipal nature of the mother-daughter bond.Born and raised in the Bronx, the daughter of “urban peasants,” Gornick grows up in a household dominated by her intelligent but uneducated mother’s romantic depression over the early death of her husband. Next door lives Nettie, an attractive widow whose calculating sensuality appeals greatly to Vivian. These women with their opposing models of femininity continue, well into adulthood, to affect Gornick’s struggle to find herself in love and in work.As Gornick walks with her aged mother through the streets of New York, arguing and remembering the past, each wins the reader’s the caustic and clear-thinking daughter, for her courage and tenacity in really talking to her mother about the most basic issues of their lives, and the still powerful and intuitively-wise old woman, who again and again proves herself her daughter’s mother. Unsparing, deeply courageous, Fierce Attachments is one of the most remarkable documents of family feeling that has been written, a classic that helped start the memoir boom and remains one of the most moving examples of the genre.“[Gornick] stares unflinchingly at all that is hidden, difficult, strange, unresolvable in herself and others—at loneliness, sexual malice and the devouring, claustral closeness of mothers and daughters…[Fierce Attachments is] a portrait of the artist as she finds a language—original, allergic to euphemism and therapeutic banalities—worthy of the women that raised her.”—The New York Times

Continuación natural de «Apegos feroces», «La mujer singular y la ciudad» es un mapa fascinante y emotivo de los ritmos, los encuentros fortuitos y las amistades siempre cambiantes que conforman la vida en la ciudad, en este caso Nueva York. Mientras pasea por las calles de Manhattan, de nuevo en compañía de su madre o sola, Gornick observa lo que ocurre a su alrededor, interactúa con extraños, intercala anécdotas personales y piezas reflexivas sobre la amistad, sobre la a menudo irreprimible atracción por la soledad y sobre qué significa ser una feminista moderna. Estas memorias son el autorretrato de una mujer que defiende con ferocidad su independencia, y que ha decidido vivir hasta el final sus conflictos en lugar de sus fantasías.

En Mirarse de frente, Gornick convierte el recuerdo de su experiencia como camarera en los Castkills no sólo en una agridulce aproximación al deseo juvenil y los trabajos veraniegos, sino en una indeleble toma de contacto con las desigualdades de clase y de género. Su periplo como profesora visitante por varias universidades estadounidenses le sirve para trazar una maravillosa y tragicómica radiografía del paisaje académico como suplicio para el espíritu: comunidades aisladas, con sus ritos y rencillas, con su peculiar dinámica de soledad y sociabilidad donde el alma se enmohece rodeada de seres sólo en apariencia afines. En estas irresistibles viñetas, Gornick vuelve a ofrecernos la singular mirada – valiente y feroz, empática y siempre de frente– con la que encara el mundo.

Antes de convertirse en una de las grandes cronistas de lo íntimo, Vivian Gornick escribía con la claridad furiosa de quien ha elegido vivir al servicio de una causa. Los textos reunidos en Por qué algunos hombres odian a las mujeres revelan a una pensadora radical, lúcida y vibrante, en plena efervescencia del feminismo en los años setenta.En este libro, Gornick utiliza desde las conversaciones aparentemente triviales en una peluquería del Midtown hasta las disputas ideológicas dentro del movimiento para capturar el pulso de una transformación histórica. Además, analiza cómo se construye el poder masculino y se transmite la sumisión femenina, reflexiona sobre las diferencias entre las olas feministas y denuncia la misoginia soterrada –y no tan soterrada– en autores consagrados como Norman Mailer, Saul Bellow o Philip Roth. Pero sobre todas las cosas, defiende el valor político del testimonio personal en los grupos de autoconciencia, donde lo privado se vuelve revolución.Este libro no es solo la crónica de una é es una cartografía de la resistencia, una llamada a no bajar la guardia, una guía de combate. En tiempos en los que el feminismo vuelve a ser desafiado por viejos y nuevos reaccionarismos, estas páginas nos recuerdan que ninguna conquista es irreversible y que la autonomía de las mujeres sigue siendo, para muchos, una amenaza intolerable.

One of our most vital and incisive writers on literature, feminism, and knowing one's self For nearly fifty years, Vivian Gornick's essays, written with her characteristic clarity of perception and vibrant prose, have explored feminism and writing, literature and culture, politics and personal experience. Drawing writing from the course of her career, Taking a Long Look illuminates one of the driving themes behind Gornick's that the painful process of understanding one's self is what binds us to the larger world. In these essays, Gornick explores the lives and literature of Alfred Kazin, Mary McCarthy, Diana Trilling, Philip Roth, Joan Didion, and Herman Melville; the cultural impact of Silent Spring and Uncle Tom's Cabin; and the characters you might only find in a New York barber shop or midtown bus terminal. Even more, Taking a Long Look brings back into print her incendiary essays, first published in the Village Voice, championing the emergence of the women's liberation movement of the 1970s. Alternately crackling with urgency or lucid with insight, the essays in Taking a Long Look demonstrate one of America's most beloved critics at her best.

A collection of the year’s best essays, selected by award-winning writer Vivian Gornick. Vivian Gornick, renowned essayist and celebrated feminist writer, selects twenty essays out of thousands that represent the best examples of the form published the previous year. In her introduction to this year’s The Best American Essays, guest editor Vivian Gornick states that her selections “contribute materially to the long and honorable history of the personal essay by way of the value they place on lived experience.” Provocative, daring, and honest at a time when many writers are deliberately silencing themselves in the face of authoritarian and populist censorship movements, the twenty-one essays collected here reflect their authors’ unapologetic observations of the world around them. From an inmate struggling to find purpose during his prison sentence to a doctor coping with the unpredictable nature of her patient, to a widow wishing for just a little more time with her late husband, these narratives—and the others featured in this anthology—celebrate the endurance of the human spirit. The Best American Essays 2023 includes Ciara Alfaro • Jillian Barnet • Sylvie Baumgartel • Eric Borsuk • Chris Dennis • Xujun Eberlein • Sandra Hager Eliason • George Estreich • Merrill Joan Gerber • Debra Gwartney • Edward Hoagland • Laura Kipnis • Phillip Lopate • Celeste Marcus • Sam Meekings • Sigrid Nunez • Kathryn Schulz • Anthony Siegel • Scott Spencer • Angelique Stevens • David Treuer

Offers powerful insight into the portrayal of romantic love by Jean Rhys, Clover Adams, Christina Stead, Willa Cather, Grace Paley, Raymond Carver, Andre Dubus, and others.

Vivian Gornick, one of our finest critics, tackled the theme of love and marriage in her last collection of essays, The End of the Novel of Love, a National Book Critics Circle Award finalist. In this new collection, she turns her attention to another large theme in literature: the struggle for the semblance of inner freedom. Great literature, she believes, is not the record of the achievement, but of the effort. Gornick, who emerged as a major writer during the second-wave feminist movement, came to realize that "ideology alone could not purge one of the pathological self-doubt that seemed every woman's bitter birthright." Or, as Anton Chekhov put it so memorably: "Others made me a slave, but I must squeeze the slave out of myself, drop by drop." Perhaps surprisingly, Gornick found particular inspiration for this challenge in the work of male writers -- talented, but locked in perpetual rage, self-doubt, or social exile. From these men -- who had infinitely more permission to do and be than women had ever known -- she learned what it really meant to wrestle with demons. In the essays collected here, she explores the work of V. S. Naipaul, James Baldwin, George Gissing, Randall Jarrell, H. G. Wells, Loren Eiseley, Allen Ginsberg, Hayden Carruth, Saul Bellow, and Philip Roth. Throughout the book, Gornick is at her best: interpreting the intimate interrelationship of emotional damage, social history, and great literature.

A memoir of self-discovery and the dilemma of connection in our time, The Odd Woman and the City explores the rhythms, chance encounters, and ever-changing friendships of urban life that forge the sensibility of a fiercely independent woman who has lived out her conflicts, not her fantasies, in a city (New York) that has done the same. Running steadily through the book is Vivian Gornick's exchange of more than twenty years with Leonard, a gay man who is sophisticated about his own unhappiness, whose friendship has "shed more light on the mysterious nature of ordinary human relations than has any other intimacy" she has known. The exchange between Gornick and Leonard acts as a Greek chorus to the main action of the narrator's continual engagement on the street with grocers, derelicts, and doormen; people on the bus, cross-dressers on the corner, and acquaintances by the handful. In Leonard she sees herself reflected plain; out on the street she makes sense of what she sees. Written as a narrative collage that includes meditative pieces on the making of a modern feminist, the role of the flaneur in urban literature, and the evolution of friendship over the past two centuries, The Odd Woman and the City beautifully bookends Gornick's acclaimed Fierce Attachments, in which we first encountered her rich relationship with the ultimate metropolis.

Writer and critic Vivian Gornick's classic exploring how Left politics gave depth and meaning to American life. "Before I knew that I was Jewish or a girl I knew that I was a member of the working class." So begins Vivian Gornick's exploration of how the world of socialists, communists, and progressives in the 1940s and 1950s created a rich, diverse world where ordinary men and women felt their lives connected to a larger human project. The Romance of American Communism is a landmark work of new journalism, profiling American Communist Party members and fellow travelers as they joined the Party, lived within its orbit, and left in disillusionment and disappointment as Stalin's crimes became public.

A guide to the art of personal writing, by the author of Fierce Attachments and The End of the Novel of LoveAll narrative writing must pull from the raw material of life a tale that will shape experience, transform event, deliver a bit of wisdom. In a story or a novel the "I" who tells this tale can be, and often is, an unreliable narrator but in nonfiction the reader must always be persuaded that the narrator is speaking truth.How does one pull from one's own boring, agitated self the truth-speaker who will tell the story a personal narrative needs to tell? That is the question The Situation and the Story asks--and answers. Taking us on a reading tour of some of the best memoirs and essays of the past hundred years, Gornick traces the changing idea of self that has dominated the century, and demonstrates the enduring truth-speaker to be found in the work of writers as diverse as Edmund Gosse, Joan Didion, Oscar Wilde, James Baldwin, or Marguerite Duras.This book, which grew out of fifteen years teaching in MFA programs, is itself a model of the lucid intelligence that has made Gornick one of our most admired writers of nonfiction. In it, she teaches us to write by teaching us how to read: how to recognize truth when we hear it in the writing of others and in our own.

Elizabeth Cady Stanton—along with her comrade-in-arms, Susan B. Anthony—was one of the most important leaders of the movement to gain American women the vote. But, as Vivian Gornick argues in this passionate, vivid biographical essay, Stanton is also the greatest feminist thinker of the nineteenth century. Endowed with a philosophical cast of mind large enough to grasp the immensity that women's rights addressed, Stanton developed a devotion to equality uniquely American in character. Her writing and life make clear why feminism as a liberation movement has flourished here as nowhere else in the world. Born in 1815 into a conservative family of privilege, Stanton was radicalized by her experience in the abolitionist movement. Attending the first international conference on slavery in London in 1840, she found herself amazed when the conference officials refused to seat her because of her sex. At that moment she realized that "In the eyes of the world I was not as I was in my own eyes, I was only a woman." At the same moment she saw what it meant for the American republic to have failed to deliver on its fundamental promise of equality for all. In her last public address, "The Solitude of Self," (delivered in 1892), she argued for women's political equality on the grounds that loneliness is the human condition, and that each citizen therefore needs the tools to fight alone for his or her interests. Vivian Gornick first encountered "The Solitude of Self" thirty years ago. Of that moment Gornick writes, "I hardly knew who Stanton was, much less what this speech meant in her life, or in our history, but it I can still remember thinking with excitement and gratitude, as I read these words for the first time, eighty years after they were written, ‘We are beginning where she left off.' " The Solitude of Self is a profound, distilled meditation on what makes American feminism American from one of the finest critics of our time.

Unfinished Business: Notes of a Chronic Re-reader is Vivian Gornick's celebration of passionate reading, of returning again and again to the books that have shaped her at crucial points in her life. In nine essays that traverse literary criticism, memoir, and biography, one of our most celebrated critics writes about the importance of reading--and re-reading--as life progresses. Gornick finds herself in contradictory characters within D. H. Lawrence's Sons and Lovers, assesses womanhood in Colette's The Vagabond and The Shackle, and considers the veracity of memory in Marguerite Duras's The Lover. She revisits Great War novels by J. L. Carr and Pat Barker, uncovers the psychological complexity of Elizabeth Bowen's prose, and soaks in Natalia Ginzburg, "a writer whose work has often made me love life more." After adopting two cats, whose erratic behavior she finds vexing, she discovers Doris Lessing's Particularly Cats. Guided by Gornick's trademark verve and insight, Unfinished Business is a masterful appreciation of literature's power to illuminate our lives from a peerless writer and thinker who "still read[s] to feel the power of Life with a capital L."

Nestas memórias profundamente marcantes e perturbadoras, a escritora e ativista Vivian Gornick conta a história da batalha que travou com a mãe durante toda a vida pela sua independência. Escreveram-se já muitos livros sobre mães e filhas, mas nenhum retratou esta relação, a mais próxima de todas as relações filiais, com tanta franqueza e impiedade. Pela sua coragem assombrosa, Vínculos Ferozes é um livro pioneiro, um clássico que ajudou a desencadear a subsequente profusão de livros de memórias e que continua a ser um dos mais impressionantes modelos do género. Gornick, uma mulher madura, caminha com a sua mãe idosa pelas ruas de Manhattan, discutindo e recordando o passado, e, ao longo desses passeios repletos de lembranças, reprimendas e cumplicidades, conhecemos a história da luta de uma filha para encontrar o seu lugar e a sua voz no mundo. Nascida e criada no Bronx, filha de «rústicos urbanos», Vivian Gornick cresce num lar dominado pela depressão romântica da mãe, provocada pela morte prematura do marido. No apartamento ao lado vive Nettie, uma viúva atraente cuja sensualidade deliberada exerce forte influência sobre Vivian. Estas mulheres, com os seus modelos opostos de feminilidade, irão afetar o esforço da autora, mesmo em adulta, para se encontrar a si mesma no amor e no trabalho.

“Gornick’s portraits demonstrate the driving force behind science.”— The Philadelphia Inquirer “Women in science stir the contemporary imagination. In their hyphenated identity is captured the pain and excitement of a culture struggling to mature.”— The Washington Post In this newly revised twenty-fifth anniversary edition, acclaimed writer and journalist Vivian Gornick interviews famous and lesser-known scientists, compares their experiences then and now, and shows that, although not much has changed in the world of science, what is different is women’s expectations that they can and will succeed. Everything from the disparaging comments by Harvard’s then-president to government reports and media coverage has focused on the ways in which women supposedly can’t do science. Gornick’s original interviews show how deep and severe discrimination against women was back then in all scientific fields. Her new interviews, with some of the same women she spoke to twenty-five years ago, provide a fresh description of the hard times and great successes these women have experienced.

פעמים מעטות הצליחה סופרת לצייר בצורה כה אנושית, חיונית וכנה את מערכת היחסים בין אם ובת כפי שגורניק עשתה ביצירת מופת זו, אשר ראתה אור לראשונה ב־1987. אישה בוגרת מתהלכת עם אמה הקשישה ברחובות מנהטן. מבעד לטיולים הללו, המלאים זיכרונות, תלונות והומור משותף, פורשת הסופרת את מאבקה כבת למצוא את מקומה בעולם. בד בבד משחזרת גורניק את חוויות ילדותה בניו יורק של שנות הארבעים והחמישים, כאשר התגוררה עם משפחתה בבניין המאוכלס ביהודים בני מעמד הפועלים. בלב הספר ניצבות מערכות היחסים בין השכנות: המרחב הקהילתי הנשי שנוצר בכל בוקר כאשר גוש הבניינים מתרוקן מהגברים שיוצאים לעבודה, והנשים והילדות נותרות בממלכה משלהן, אשר במרכזה חבלי הכביסה הסבוכים הקושרים ביניהן ונהפכים לפקעת שקשה להתיר. זהו לא רק סיפור על אם ובתה, אלא גם סיפור התבגרות וחניכה נשי. הדמויות הנשיות המאלפות שלאורן מתבגרת המספרת הן אמה – אישה חזקה ממעמד הפועלים, פעילה סוציאליסטית בחשאי, וגם אם ובת זוג אוהבת – ושכנתן נטי, זרה החיה בין יהודיות, אישה למודת אובדן אשר מיניותה המופגנת דנה אותה לשהייה מתמדת בשולי החברה. המודלים הנשיים הללו יעצבו את נפשה של המספרת ויכתיבו את יחסיה עם החברה הפטריארכלית, עם עבודתה ועם נשים אחרות בשארית חייה. לפנינו סיפורה של מערכת יחסים עדינה ומתישה אך גם דיוקן נע של חברה, של תקופה, וניתוח מבריק ורגיש של אנושיות ושל החומרים העכורים־מעט שמהם היא מורכבת. ״הגם שאף פעם לא היה נראה שאמא שלי מקשיבה למתרחש בסמטה, דבר לא חמק ממנה. היא שמעה כל קול, כל תנועה של חבלי הכביסה, כל זיע של המצעים, וקלטה כל קריאה וכל תקשורת. היינו מתבדחות על האנגלית השבורה של ההיא, ועל הפה הגדול וקלות הדעת של הזאת, צווחה פה, קללה עסיסית שם. התגובות החיות שלה והערותיה על המתרחש מחוץ לחלון אפשרו לי לטעום לראשונה מפירותיה של תבונה: היא ידעה להמיר רכילות לכדי ידע״