Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory

Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory

Caitlin Doughty

Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 5.0Characters: 5.0Plot: 5.0
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A young mortician goes behind the scenes, unafraid of the gruesome (and fascinating) details of her curious profession. Most people want to avoid thinking about death, but Caitlin Doughty—a twenty-something with a degree in medieval history and a flair for the macabre—took a job at a crematory, turning morbid curiosity into her life’s work. Thrown into a profession of gallows humor and vivid characters (both living and very dead), Doughty learned to navigate the secretive culture of those who care for the deceased. Smoke Gets in Your Eyes tells an unusual coming-of-age story full of bizarre encounters and unforgettable scenes. Caring for dead bodies of every color, shape, and affliction, Doughty soon becomes an intrepid explorer in the world of the dead. She describes how she swept ashes from the machines (and sometimes onto her clothes) and reveals the strange history of cremation and undertaking, marveling at bizarre and wonderful funeral practices from different cultures. Her eye-opening, candid, and often hilarious story is like going on a journey with your bravest friend to the cemetery at midnight. She demystifies death, leading us behind the black curtain of her unique profession. And she answers questions you didn’t know you had: Can you catch a disease from a corpse? How many dead bodies can you fit in a Dodge van? What exactly does a flaming skull look like? Honest and heartfelt, self-deprecating and ironic, Doughty's engaging style makes this otherwise taboo topic both approachable and engrossing. Now a licensed mortician with an alternative funeral practice, Doughty argues that our fear of dying warps our culture and society, and she calls for better ways of dealing with death (and our dead).


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    I loved this relaxed perspective on death and the death industry. Very eye opening and comforting actually

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    -Amusing anecdotes put just next to intense/gross details--though I was rarely squicked out or too disgusted. It didn't feel like they were for shock value but as jumping off points open discussions
    -My take away thoughts: embalming is not natural and is expensive and not great for the environment. We (especially in America) have weird fears/prejudices against death but also the process and dead bodies--we're maybe missing some historical/cultural practices to help in this area
    - I enjoyed the listening experience, but even now ~10 days later I'm not sure I'm remembering the big messages? Not sure if that's me and my memory or if the writing could have been stronger/harder hitting to hammer her points home...


    Liked that it was narrated by the author, she did a decent job

    Nonfiction and memoir discussing the death industry and some amusing anecdotes; final messages are about people distancing themselves from death, and we shouldn't be so anti-death, and embalming isn't the way...

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