Lundy Bancroft

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?   You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn   • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn The early warning signs of abuseThe nature of abusive thinking Myths about abusers Ten abusive personality types The role of drugs and alcohol What you can fix, and what you can’t And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely“This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

Dans ce best-seller révolutionnaire, le thérapeute et conférencier Lundy Bancroft, fort de décennies d'expérience auprès de conjoints abusifs, expose leur mode de pensée afin d'aider leurs compagnes à reconnaître les techniques de contrôle et de dévalorisation dont elles sont victimes et à se libérer d'une relation toxique.Il dit qu'il vous aime. Alors, pourquoi fait-il ça? Ce livre vous fera pénétrer dans l'esprit des hommes colériques et contrôlants et vous fera découvrir les signes précurseurs de la violence et les différents types de personnalité abusive. En outre, vous apprendrez à distinguer ce qu'il est possible de changer de ce qui ne l'est pas, et comment quitter une relation abusive en toute sécurité. « Ce livre est dédié aux milliers de femmes intrépides, dont plusieurs survivantes de violence intime, ayant créé et porté le mouvement de résistance aux agressions conjugales. Il est aussi dédié aux nombreux hommes ayant rejoint cette lutte en tant qu'alliés. » (L. Bancroft)