this list is not to be confused with mastication
self care romance books in all forms: mutual, solo, IRL, video call, phone, overhearing, walking in on, public space, etc etc.
if you hate the word ‘masturbation’, try: flicking the bean, jerking off, finger banging, rub one out, beat the meat, dj the vj, wanking, jerkin the gherkin, fapping; we can go on for days. whatever you call it, i just hope you reach climax ⛰️ toys encouraged but a hand (or two or three or-) will do just fine.
🫵 𝑔𝑜 𝒻𝓊𝒸𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻! 🫵 😇 gladly 😇






Disability in Queer Romance
Romance books featuring queer characters living with physical disabilities, mental health struggles, chronic illness, and/or neurodevelopmental conditions.
Note: If a series features the same MCs, I've only put the first book. If a series features different MCs, I've only listed the relevant book(s) in the series.
Be aware: list spans YA to erotica.
🚫 No "magical cure" tropes or "better dead than disabled" tropes welcome. No inspo porn.
Please leave any recs or concerns in the comments. 📝






I kissed a monster and I liked it 💋 MM/BL/Gay
Non-human romances (one or both partners), fantasy, dystopian, alien, and paranormal. Always open to suggestions!






MM Romantasy
Romantasy but for the gays. Fantasy in this list includes: magic, fairies/fae, mythical, mystical, supernatural.






The Queer Occult
GAY Vampires, Werewolves, and monsters of the night.






Gay fantasy romance that surprised me
These books surprised me with how much I ended up liking them. I was expecting a typical gay romance novel with a suggestion of a fantasy world, but these delivered. Some contain monster-adjecent love interests, but I wouldn’t classify them as monster romance as the “monsters” are typical in the fantasy world.






Who said dark couldn't be cozy?
Books with darker tones and themes that still feel cozy and comforting.






inhuman and otherworldly romances 💕
monsters and angels and other creatures!!






MM Escapist Books
Books to escape from the mortal world





