it’s complicated: mother-child relationships
Fiction & nonfiction books that explore the complexities and traumas of mother-child relationships or in which such relationships play a central role. While many books on this list are what I’d classify as including “mommy issues” there are others that are more about the different perspectives and nuances of the mother-child (often specifically mother-daughter) relationship. Some books center the child, some the mother, some both.
Suggestions are welcome.






All the lesbian books I can find
All the lesbians books I can find. If you have any book you want me to add please comment ❤️






Lesbian Herstory
Make your way through the lesbian herstorical canon.
This list features standalone non-fiction texts only.
Please request these books at your local library.
Most out-of-print texts can be requested through your library's ILL system or read on archive.org. 💝






AI Authors
Books by people who use artificial intelligence in the writing and/or publishing process. Sources are linked in the comments.






Women's Memoirs and (Auto)biographies
I have been collecting (and reading) a long list of memoirs, autobiographies and biographies about women who had fascinating lives. I thought I might as well make it a list! A lot of them I have read and enjoyed, some are from my TBR. I am especially fascinated by 18th-19th century women's stories, so there will be a lot of those. And women from diverse backgrounds. Open to suggestions!






religious guilt + queerness = this list
Because of the lesbian ex-tradCath that I am, here's a list of mostly fiction books uniting Christianity in its various forms with queerness, where both are large themes. Disclaimer: I have not read all of the books here, so if there are some that have been mislabeled, please tell me! Suggestions are always welcome!






weird girlhood(s)
the books that are most interesting, inventive, and complex for the girlhood studies grad student in me. whose “girlhood” are we talking about? i’m thinking of girlhood as a liminal, queer, socially constructed, often traumatic, uncanny space.






Stonewall Book Awards and Honors
I thought it would be nice to have all of them in one long list.






thanks mom. i’ll discuss this in therapy.⋆
the complicated inheritance of being someone's daughter. maternal wounds, generational trauma, inherited neuroses, impossible expectations, and the many ways love can leave a mark. mothers we love, resent, misunderstand, and spend a lifetime trying to figure out. daughters caught between becoming their mothers, disappointing them, and figuring out who they are without them. // some family issues require a little more than a family group chat.
— suggestions always welcome!






Guardian 100
Top 100 books of the 21st century






Mother Wounds 🕯️
Stories of mothers and daughters tangled in love, grief, and ruin.






To be a woman is…
A list of memoirs/autobiographies by and about women and their lives






Queer Longing, Queer Survival 🌈
Queer voices carrying tenderness, desire, shame, and resilience.






Book Recommendations by Jennette McCurdy
I present to you the queen of Biographys: Jennette McCurdy. In her book recs we trust.






Happy first month of summer pride❤️🩷🧡🤍
we need more sapphic rep so here is my curated sapphic book rec list:






modern queer masterpieces






learning about real people’s real lifes






To be read
Books waiting to be read





