books your pretentious friend has heard of






All that's left is bones: Books about 𝕯𝖊𝖆𝖙𝖍 ☠️
Books about death, dying, grief and what remains.






Death Culture and Dying
Books that tackle death and dying.






Morbid & Mourning
Books that centre grief, funerals, deathcare, or embalming. Always appreciate recs — especially for fiction and funeral home settings.






On grief, grieving, and loss
Ongoing. Fiction and non-fiction exploration of grief: anticipatory, grieving death of a loved one (including pets), loosing pregnancy, etc, and how to live with it.






The Grief Booklist I was Looking For (i hope)
A lot of these are general, but I am focused on finding books on sibling loss and suicide bereavement or compounded grief. I am compiling what have read (not much yet), but also recs that I want to look into. I would love to hear suggestions (a lot of this is the result of snooping though maybe too many forums and blogs, so anyone else with insight would be lovely)!






these aren't raindrops in my eyes
emotionally resonant and impactful reads that will make you feel all of the feels (and, if you're like me, cry).






grieving & being held in grief
books i've read to process the loss of a loved one (and found helpful, meaningful, or valuable)






Memoirs about Grief
This collection of memoirs all center around grief after losing a loved one and the complex ways it manifests.






Spill Your Guts: Essays & Mess-ays
Sharp, funny and sometimes disastrously intimate essays from writers with a story to tell.






Books about Grief
For the people who learned to carry grief quietly. For the ones who show up, smile, and keep functioning, even when their hearts are heavy.






Book Riot Darlings
I've listened to every episode of the Book Riot Podcast post-2021. Below are Rebecca & Jeff’s recurring faves, or books that I just associate with them through osmosis. Disclaimer: this list starts once you’ve read the complete works of Toni Morrison, Colson Whitehead, Zadie Smith, Kazuo Ishiguro, Percival Everett, and, of course, Marilynne Robinson.





