He's everything I've looked for in a Dom, but there's always a catch. Darby I'm one who knows pain. In a way, I crave it. I guess you could say I even yearn for it. But here's the thing, I don't let anyone give it to me. If I'm going to let you give me what I need, it means that I trust you, and trust is a massive part of my lifestyle. Trust isn't something I give away freely. It's earned, and when a man comes into my life out of the blue, I don't think he'll earn my trust so quickly. But he does, and he rocks my entire world in the process.