Recs if you like When She Belongs...

self care romance books in all forms: mutual, solo, IRL, video call, phone, overhearing, walking in on, public space, etc etc.

if you hate the word ‘masturbation’, try: flicking the bean, jerking off, finger banging, rub one out, beat the meat, dj the vj, wanking, jerkin the gherkin, fapping; we can go on for days. whatever you call it, i just hope you reach climax ⛰️ toys encouraged but a hand (or two or three or-) will do just fine.

🫵 𝑔𝑜 𝒻𝓊𝒸𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓈𝑒𝓁𝒻! 🫵 😇 gladly 😇

There’s just something about a love interest washing or braiding someone's hair that gets me every single time 🥹

romance books with particular interest in the MC saying iterations of “good girl” (kneeling is encouraged) - praise kink is explored in some titles.

these characters want to please their love interests by listening and following instructions. best paired with a good girl doing 𝒷𝒶𝒹 things.

this list is for those that were A+, teachers pet students and are now adults that want to be told they are doing a good job in the bedroom ⭐️ this list is NOT in reference to animals

The (ideally) complete guide to Ruby Dixon. If you need a place to start, I recommend Ice Planet Barbarians. If you like one of her books, you are likely to enjoy more. She is a go-to author of mine when i need something but have a hard time choosing. I have not read all her books, but would like to know how many i have read already. Have fun!

Update: she has 162 books, if anyone notices a book missing plz let me know. I havent actually cross referenced the extensive IPB list.

Books where the main character is going through it, (or has gone through it), and dammit they’re dealing with it as best they can. Romantasy, SFR mainly! But a few memoirs and litfic too. ❤️‍🩹 Always open to more suggestions ❤️‍🩹

*Check the TW/CW as some of these books are dark romances. If I’ve left a review, I will usually leave a comment w the info

love from outer space, i see p.s: this is not a personal list. i found these recommendations myself. so, please don't downvote this list. thank you

The best of both worlds we have romance and science fiction.