The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.

The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.

Adelle Waldman

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Writer Nate Piven's star is rising. After several lean and striving years, he has his pick of both magazine assignments and women: Juliet, the hotshot business reporter; Elisa, his gorgeous ex-girlfriend, now friend; and Hannah, "almost universally regarded as nice and smart, or smart and nice," who holds her own in conversation with his friends. When one relationship grows more serious, Nate is forced to consider what it is he really wants. In Nate's 21st-century literary world, wit and conversation are not at all dead. Is romance? Novelist Adelle Waldman plunges into the psyche of a flawed, sometimes infuriating modern man--one who thinks of himself as beyond superficial judgment, yet constantly struggles with his own status anxiety, who is drawn to women, yet has a habit of letting them down in ways that may just make him an emblem of our times. The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P. is a tale of one young man's search for happiness--and an inside look at how he really thinks about women, sex and love.

Publication Year: 2013


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  • Apr 06, 2025
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    Nate is the child of immigrants and a Harvard graduate with a promising book deal and regular freelance reviewing gigs. Perhaps in the manner of many twenty-something Brooklynite men, he is simultaneously (or alternately) extremely confident and extremely insecure. Nate has recently broken up with his girlfriend of a year or so, Elisa, and he reflects on her mostly disparagingly, with occasional fleeting images of her beauty and his appreciation for her. When he meets one of Elisa’s friends at a dinner party she hosts, Nate is surprised to find her both attractive and appealing, and they begin a relationship that lasts about five months. Nate wrestles with his confusion about the fact that she is the kind of woman he believes he wants, and he genuinely likes her, but he finds that he isn’t attracted to her anymore. With that frustration, he begins to find everything Hannah does irritating. While he’s able to reflect on the vicious cycle of insecurity this creates, eventually the relationship fails. 

    This is a novel of manners, slowly following our protagonist from bar to bar, book event to book event, interacting with the people of the town and industry with the occasional plot point thrown in there beyond the personal reflections. I enjoyed this book, though it was one I could just set aside and forget about for days until I finally decided it was time to just pick it up and finish it.

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    Aug 22, 2024
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    Perfect Val Day read for my current state of mind ;) No, but really... frighteningly accurate.

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