Resources for figuring out your sexual, romantic and gender identity
created by vitaminlee
last updated February, 2026
The Times I Knew I Was Gay
Eleanor Crewes
How to Be Ace: A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual
Rebecca Burgess
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures
Janet W. Hardy
The Awesome Autistic Guide for Trans Teens
Yenn Purkis
Beyond Bananas and Condoms: The LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Sex Education You Never Got at School
Dee Whitnell
Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality
Mae Martin
Breathe: Journeys to Healthy Binding
Maia Kobabe
How to Understand Your Gender
Alex Iantaffi
A Quick & Easy Guide to Coming Out
Kristin Russo
A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns
Archie Bongiovanni Archie Bongiovanni
A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality (A Quick and Easy Guide To)
Molly Muldoon
The ABC's of LGBT+
Ashley Mardell
A Quick & Easy Guide to Queer & Trans Identities
Mady G.
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