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SpectrumGayMess

Caden/Cade, white, 33, they/he, autistic, 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Always chasing the childhood vibe of reading entire books in a single sitting

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Different, Not Less: A Neurodivergent's Guide to Embracing Your True Self and Finding Your Happily Ever After
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We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation
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  • We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation
    Thoughts from 36% (page 78)

    “Considers herself neurodivergent with ADHD traits” so ADHD. She has ADHD. What are we doing

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  • We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation
    Thoughts from 32% (page 69)

    And why are we listening to and citing organizations with slurs in their name?

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    Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)

    Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)

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    We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation

    We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 98% (page 293)

    “And once a woman gets hit, is she stupid because she doesn’t leave?” Literally yes what point do you think you’re making here

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    Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)

    Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)

    Bethany Joy Lenz

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 98% (page 293)

    “And once a woman gets hit, is she stupid because she doesn’t leave?” Literally yes what point do you think you’re making here

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 97% (page 290)

    If you are getting out of an abusive situation do NOT take this woman’s advice what the FUCK do you mean. “Let them get away with it to protect your peace” and what about the next victim huh? They don’t matter? You’re willing to sacrifice them on the altar of your “peace”? “Oh yea and give them all your money and also a car for some reason. And literally anything else they ask for” What absolute GARBAGE

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 96% (page 285)

    “You’re either not there or you’re really fucking cruel. What the hell kind of god asks people who follow him to do all this stuff and follow all these fucking rules and then, when they do, just allows their life to fall apart?” You were so close to getting it! If only you hadn’t had an auditory hallucination on this same page and convinced yourself sky daddy was real after all

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 95% (page 283)

    “Yea I felt bad for my husband who checks notes abused me and wanted to take my child from me and raise her in a house full of pedophiles” is crazy work im ngl

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 90% (page 269)

    “You’re a grown-up. If you wanted to turn over your autonomy to some sociopath leading a little religious club, that’s on you” well yes. That’s literally correct

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 87% (page 259)

    My stomach just dropped outta my ASS what do you mean what do you MEAN WHAT DO YOU MEAN

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 85% (page 252)

    Great Schism mention

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 83% (page 248)

    I’m ngl it’s pretty crazy to write a whole book about how abusive it was being in a cult meanwhile you’re glazing known misogynistic sexual harasser and wife beater Paul Johansson

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 83% (page 246)

    I do think it’s funny that she’s changed everyone’s names and given nicknames because like…we know what her ex’s name is lmao. She publicly used his last name. So in this moment she would have been referred to that way but she removed it. Like “oh the cult is still active so this is to cover my ass” girl we know his name if people really want to they can find out who these people are lol

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 74% (page 220)

    Not so friendly reminder that Stockholm syndrome isn’t real. It’s just misogyny

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 72% (page 216)

    The tattoo detail is actually really important because now if anyone who reads this ever sees a man with that tattoo, they know to run the fuck away

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 70% (page 210)

    “It was immediately and abundantly clear this whole arrangement was the worst decision I’d ever made” ok so leave???? I just genuinely don’t understand this I’m sorry

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 65% (page 195)

    Now why are we out here calling people plus-size 😭

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  • Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!)
    Thoughts from 63% (page 187)
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