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abigailcofer commented on eclectically.bookish's review of The Burning Side
Why is it that the books I love most are also the most difficult to review?
I’ve been sitting on this for over a week, and I’m still gathering thoughts.
The Burning Side follows Leo and April in the months after a house fire. But their “home” was already burning as the fire occurs the night Leo tells April he wants a divorce. When their family of 4 temporarily moves in with April’s parents, we also get her mother, Deb’s, point of view, and what she isn’t telling anyone is that her husband, April’s father, was recently diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s. With flashbacks to both couple’s earliest days, this is a searing exploration of marriage and grief and the way that change is constant.
I loved this novel. The writing is full of beautiful language and imagery without being overly sentimental or flowery. I may have highlighted more than I left blank.
The structure was impeccable. I say this because there were two moments when I came to a breaking point, when I ached too much for these characters, and when I needed something, anything, to shift in the storytelling or my anxious heart might break. Both times, within pages, the narrative moved in exactly the way I needed it to. (DM if you’ve read this and want to chat over the details!) Sarah brought me to the brink of despair and then brought hopeful resolution, all while including the mess, miscommunication, heartache, and authenticity of real life.
I can’t tell you how many tears I cried. April’s struggle with new motherhood in her body and mind, Leo’s background and past abandonment, the contrast between these characters and the slow erosion of their marriage, Deb’s struggle with her kids being grown, with her husband slowly fading (something I witnessed in my own mother with early onset)—all of this made for realistic characters who hurt and heal, burn down and rebuild.
This will certainly be a favorite read of 2026, possibly of all time.
Thank you to NetGalley and Simon + Schuster for the digital review copy (which I failed to read before pub date, but still appreciate!).
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