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Rara Mendut
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The Sorrows of Young Werther
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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Martyr!
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Water Moon
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White Nights
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Bookish and the Beast (Once Upon a Con, #3)
Ashley Poston
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I can agree that this book offers a strong start but i was let down in like the last 25% of it.
I was really intrigued with the way the salary man describes Raif, so i couldn't wait to know about him and what made him that... (seemingly) interesting. I think the author tried hard to make him seem different than any men but to me he has the personality of a cabbage. I was struggling to see why Maria seemed so interested in him.
And Maria.... sigh, how do i even start. She started of strong, and i gotta admit she had iconic lines about how women are always expected to bow down to men and how men seems to be unable to take no for an answer. My favorite line:
"Why is it that in the way you beg, there is dominance, and pity in the way we refuse?"
But then she had to go and say that falling in love with a woman goes against the law of nature or something along those lines. Sigh.
Sometimes i don't really understand the reason for her actions and thoughts, and at some point she really starts to feel a lot like a manic pixie dream girl. I feel like she deserved to be written better, but then again the author is a man. Sigh.
I find zero sympathy in me for Raif and he has like A LOT of questionable qualities, so it really got me thinking like... is this REALLY the guy our heroine was madly in love with? The guy she finds different? The guy that went beyond her expectations to the point she was willing to try and reset her mind about the whole thing???
The ending was kinda expected and, tbh, a little cliche, so I don't really find myself feeling anything strong about it. Just, maybe, mild indifference?
I feel like it should've made me feel SOMETHING more, but due to the lack of sympathy the characters made me feel for them, i feel nothing about their story too.
However. Despite everything, I love the way feelings were portrayed here. I love the way he describes longing, love, the pain of losing someone. Those lines alone, overlooking the characters, touched my heart, so i gotta give this book some credit thanks to them.
I didn't have any problem with the pacing, so it wasn't difficult for me to finish it. I read the Indonesian translation, so I wonder if reading the english one will change my mind. Might give it a try.
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Madonna in a Fur Coat
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The Alchemist
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These Violent Delights (These Violent Delights, #1)
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The Good Samaritan
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And the Mountains Echoed
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