I think this book resonates with a lot of Asian families. I found it especially relatable that we are bound to our families forever as a part of the collectivism culture that runs in our families. While the narrator did not state the tension between her and her mom, you can always realize it when you read between the lines. There is always this obligation to be a filial child to your parents and that you owe them for the sacrifices they have done for you even if it takes away your happiness. I am not accusing the narrator of being unhappy about her relationship with her mother, but seeing how she wishes her life was different kind of resonated with me. There is just something about feeling obligated to please your parents that you begin to want to please others too all while losing yourself in the process of it.

I find it difficult to review stream of consciousness books, although this one isn't a textbook stream of consciousness narration as it was still contained and structured. But the complexity of this book shows how layered and nuanced and complicated Asian familial ties can be. I think that was what I enjoyed the most about it.

Being completely at the mercy of someone else is such a terrifying thing. This was gripping and a very unsettling read. While it isn't as hardcore as other thrillers generally are, I think the slow realization of your coming demise strikes more terror and fear in both the character and the reader.

I really truly hope this book gets a film adaptation, it has so much potential. I hope it gets directed the same way Diary of a Murderer by Kim Young Ha did.