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I'm not the best at reviewing, so it's nerve-wracking being the first. Please read this book yourself so we can get some more thoughtful contributions in here!
I think this was a beautiful and important work. Rana Abdelhamid has an accessible and moving writing style. I thought it was so powerful that she brought so many stories from her community to the forefront when creating this loving guide.
It's important to go in knowing this book is only intended as a starting point though. Some of the sections feel incomplete and that's because a lot of the safety and support you seek needs to come from your local community. She doesn't have a means of writing your local resources into the pages, so she mostly introduces where you should focus your energies.
The most challenging part of this book was understanding some of the diagrams included in the "Strike Back" section--but at least she understands the limitations of conveying technical movements on paper, so she does encourage readers to partner their exercises with video tutorials available freely on YouTube!
I also found the "Secure the Bag, Secure Your Safety" section to be a bit sparse, but I did like the Savings Circle idea that she detailed. The rest was a bit vague and open ended because it is going to come down to individuals/communities to work through the rest. She did provide you with a great place to start though! It will just take a lot of your own research to actually complete this step.
All in all, I think this was a wonderful book. I wish I could make everyone in my community read it--I feel like that would lay a great foundation!
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Get Home Safe: A Guide to Self-Defense and Building Our Collective Power
Rana Abdelhamid
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There's an internal voice that says: Maybe you should just look away. Maybe you should just keep your head down, go to work, survive the day, and let it go. But as my baba often reminds me, that is what they want. For us to feel so crushed that we retreat into individualism. That we disconnect from one another. That we forget our power. (255)
I thought this was a well worded way to remind us that we should be fighting even when we're tired. But it can truly feel so hard. How do you stay motivated to stay involved and to keep fighting? I would love all the extra tips everyone has!
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I just learned that today is annually Drop Everything and Read Day! April 12 is Beverly Cleary's birthday and DEAR Day is on that date because the concept comes from the Ramona books.
I didn't realize it was annual on a specific date, but I have fond memories of us doing this in third grade. We were allowed to bring pillows in and be cozy and read all day with no other expectations.
Did you guys have Drop Everything and Read Day when you were in school?
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I have some things that I’m a huge sucker for in books and will pretty much pick up any book if they’re involved! Mine are generational family stories, bogs, strong botanical horror themes (like plants consuming or destroying a home) and woman killing men.
I think my weirdest and most specific one is bogs. I love ‘em and can’t get enough. Give me all your best bog books!
Do you have any super specific things that draw you in - like if you see that a book features it, it’s an auto read?
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i’m about to be stuck inside for a day or two due to an incoming storm, but i can’t say i’m unhappy because my kindle is stocked full right now 🤷♀️😜 i feel like stormy weather outside makes the indoor activities so much more cozier ☺️
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I’ll keep this short. What do the PageBound users call ourselves?
I kinda like pagers or bounders? But could also see some weird in joke like tomatoes.🍅
apologize if it’s a repost but my searching failed
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The consensus seems to be “boundlings” 🦌 but there are a couple other great ones in here. No official term either, so go nuts my peebs!