Recs if you like Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy...

❌ online discourse, ✔️ holistic knowledge fiction & non-fiction that will deepen your understanding of sapphism, its language/label evolution, and its intersections with bipoc, gender diversity and bisexuality. (please note “lesbian” terminology was originally an expansive umbrella openly inclusive of fluid sapphics when many books were published, and not all identify as specifically/exclusively wlw!)

A collection of nonfiction about consensual non-monogamy (CNM), sometimes called ethical non-monogamy (ENM), with emphasis on polyamory.

Please note: I have not read all of these books, so I can’t fully vouch for quality of content but the aim of this list is to educate and assist, not to demonize or cause more harm to the community.

Open to suggestions! (pun intended)

Non-fiction titles all about love, romance, friendship, connection and relationships

A collection of non fiction books about sexuality, bdsm, kink, polyamory, queerness and much more (suggestions are welcomed)

a compilation of non-fiction books that talk about taboo topics relating to sex and relationships! topics covered thus far: kink, fetishism, polyamory, queer sex, consent, asexuality etc.

I am developing a personal curriculum around queer relationships, kink, and polyamory, and thought that my list may be helpful to other people too! I invite suggestions to add to this list in the comments!

Nonfiction audiobooks about gender, queerness, disability and everything else.

books that are well known in the therapy & mental health world - often read & recommended by therapists, social workers, and other professionals in the field 💕

Books on polyamory, friendship, and building community outside of traditional structures.