I Decided to Live as Me: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others So You Can Learn to Love Yourself is a blend of memoir and self-help literature. Written by Korean author Kim Suhyun, this book blends together personal narratives and self-improvement advice. It explores her journey through adulthood and the unrealistic expectations that accompany it, from different influences from social media, familial pressures, and societal norms. Through various examples and personal anecdotes, the author provides insights on how to live authentically and set your own standards rather than adhering to those imposed by others. The book also addresses the importance of refraining from comparing yourself to others and encourages you to find things that you like to do instead of societal or peer pressures. This book is written by a person who has navigated these challenges and is now sharing her insights to assist others. Readers from certain cultures and societies may resonate more deeply with her stories, particularly as it delves into Korean traditions and the expectations tied to them. As someone who enjoys non-fiction, I find that this type of book and its themes align well with my life experiences and my generation. I appreciated the life lessons shared, as well as the opportunity to gain a greater understanding of Korean culture through this book.

After the death of her parents, Margot became the new owner of the estate and the wine business that had been part of her family for generations. Upon her arrival, however, she finds herself grappling with numerous questions regarding her parents, her childhood, and the estate itself. The story takes place at a huge estate filled with numerous vacant rooms and corridors, surrounded by empty land that holds a foreboding and dark legacy. Just this environment would be sufficient to create a chilling and eerie atmosphere for anyone alone in that space. The plot begins slowly, gradually intensifying with elements of horror and dread. While some occurrences appear surreal, certain injuries are very real. Margot endures a journey of fear and terror, seemingly left to confront the haunting legacy she has inherited on her own. While there are additional characters in the story, we only get brief moments that don't tell us much about them. I particularly liked the dog in the story, as dogs are often seen as symbols of goodness. In a place burdened by a troubling history, anything positive is crucial to hold onto. As the story progresses and Margot uncovers more about her parents, her family's past, and the estate, it becomes even more engaging. The pace quickens, centering on Margot's struggle for survival and her connections with the estate and the few individuals she meets shortly after arriving. Overall, this story serves as a compelling haunted house story, filled with elements of ghostly and paranormal horror.