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  • The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless Competition
    Sep 05, 2026
    The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless CompetitionJay Caspian Kang
    4.5
    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 4.0Characters: 4.0Plot:
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    I feel heard. I feel seen. I’m with you, Jay Caspian Kang! Thank you for panicking.

    Being a parent means being in a state of infinite worrying. While I know that the type of worries I have are of the luxury kind, I can’t help act upon them with reckless abandon. And so does the author, who combines own observations as a parent with not too reassuring studies and figures. Never shying away from showing the good (his kids seem pretty cool!) and the ugly, the author created an entertaining examination of today’s parenting, when all basic needs are met.

    This book explores the practice of putting children in endless number of classes, private tutoring, and enrichment programs. Paying exuberant fees, and driving his kid around is not what the author wants to do, but rejecting the rat race at the cost of the kiddo’s future is not ideal either. The author finds himself in limbo, resulting in a laugh-out-loud funny account of a phenomenon that keeps parents in a chokehold.

    Although the author describes his reality in the American context, I can definitely see similarities within the Dutch society. The examples are ridiculously relatable - we don’t joke about soccer around here - and of course, some worries are rather universal, but many parenting challenges are eerily similar (I’m looking at you, screen-time enforcement).

    The Endless Tryout captures this era of parenting well and I hope in time it will be referred to as a pivotal book that started the wipe out of our collective panic.

    Thank you Penguin Press for the advanced copy. I really liked it!

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    The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless Competition

    The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless Competition

    Jay Caspian Kang

    From New Yorker staff writer Jay Caspian Kang, a provocative, mordantly funny, autobiographical rejection of the toxic competitiveness that has come to define the lives of American parents and children alike—and a search for a better way for allEvery year, the rat race begins earlier and earlier for the next generation of American kids. Parents hustle ever-younger—and increasingly anxious—children from one extracurricular and afterschool activity to another. The financial cost of soccer practice, Kumon, or ballet lessons keeps rising. But the apparent social costs of not building a differentiated résumé for an eight-year-old seem to rise even faster. Otherwise, what hopes are there for a spot at the “right” educational institution later in life? American parents white-knuckle their way through a hierarchical game that seemingly cannot be won, only lost. Running this gauntlet, the middleclass—far removed from the lives of the ultrarich who always have on hand consultants and tutors—will jettison their stated political ideals and commitments in the blink of an eye, if it means their kids have a fractionally better shot with the admissions office. Who built this Hunger Games-style arena of personal development? And—as most measures of mental health for parents and kids deteriorate further—whose interests does it serve, if anyone? Jay Caspian Kang, for one, has had enough.In his distinctively thoughtful, hilarious, lacerating style—which has made his columns and op-eds for the New York Times and The New Yorker famous—Kang takes aim at this culture of competition, optimization, and hypocrisy, pointing the finger with as much ferocity at himself as at the rest of us. He writes with startling candor about his precocious eight-year-old daughter, Frankie, and their adventures together in the baroque world of youth soccer. He skewers the affected and overwrought milieu, in which he, a writer for legacy media outlets, and his family finds themselves as a card-carrying members of the so-called “coastal elite,” having relocated from Brooklyn to Berkeley. And he confronts the intractable dilemma of “screen time,” and its attendant alienation, with sangfroid and a spirit of pragmatism.At once an accusation and a confession, The Endless Tryout promises both catharsis and salvation for parents at the end of their rope. In his imitable voice, Kang captures like no one has before the special hybrid of panic and cruel calculation that gives American parenting its uniquely stressed-out emotional texture. At heart, his book is a desperately creative attempt to imagine a better—no less high-achieving but more realistic, honorable, and humane—world for parents and children alike, as well as a love letter to his own kids. For Frankie and her little brother, Anzan, he would do or sacrifice anything—including his dignity and reputation.

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    The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless Competition

    The Endless Tryout: Reclaiming Childhood from Relentless Competition

    Jay Caspian Kang

    From New Yorker staff writer Jay Caspian Kang, a provocative, mordantly funny, autobiographical rejection of the toxic competitiveness that has come to define the lives of American parents and children alike—and a search for a better way for allEvery year, the rat race begins earlier and earlier for the next generation of American kids. Parents hustle ever-younger—and increasingly anxious—children from one extracurricular and afterschool activity to another. The financial cost of soccer practice, Kumon, or ballet lessons keeps rising. But the apparent social costs of not building a differentiated résumé for an eight-year-old seem to rise even faster. Otherwise, what hopes are there for a spot at the “right” educational institution later in life? American parents white-knuckle their way through a hierarchical game that seemingly cannot be won, only lost. Running this gauntlet, the middleclass—far removed from the lives of the ultrarich who always have on hand consultants and tutors—will jettison their stated political ideals and commitments in the blink of an eye, if it means their kids have a fractionally better shot with the admissions office. Who built this Hunger Games-style arena of personal development? And—as most measures of mental health for parents and kids deteriorate further—whose interests does it serve, if anyone? Jay Caspian Kang, for one, has had enough.In his distinctively thoughtful, hilarious, lacerating style—which has made his columns and op-eds for the New York Times and The New Yorker famous—Kang takes aim at this culture of competition, optimization, and hypocrisy, pointing the finger with as much ferocity at himself as at the rest of us. He writes with startling candor about his precocious eight-year-old daughter, Frankie, and their adventures together in the baroque world of youth soccer. He skewers the affected and overwrought milieu, in which he, a writer for legacy media outlets, and his family finds themselves as a card-carrying members of the so-called “coastal elite,” having relocated from Brooklyn to Berkeley. And he confronts the intractable dilemma of “screen time,” and its attendant alienation, with sangfroid and a spirit of pragmatism.At once an accusation and a confession, The Endless Tryout promises both catharsis and salvation for parents at the end of their rope. In his imitable voice, Kang captures like no one has before the special hybrid of panic and cruel calculation that gives American parenting its uniquely stressed-out emotional texture. At heart, his book is a desperately creative attempt to imagine a better—no less high-achieving but more realistic, honorable, and humane—world for parents and children alike, as well as a love letter to his own kids. For Frankie and her little brother, Anzan, he would do or sacrifice anything—including his dignity and reputation.

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  • Some People
    Sep 01, 2026
    Some PeopleParini Shroff
    5.0
    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 5.0Characters: 5.0Plot: 4.0
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    This book… I ADORE it. It was as wonderful as The Road to Tender Hearts (Annie Hartnett), as magnificent as Minbak (Ela Lee), and as amazing as the author’s debut The Bandit Queens.

    I’ve never read a book that examines relationships through a mother and her soon-to-be ex-son-in-law before, but it works amazingly well. Malti Patel is temporarily homebound after a fall. Per the doctor’s prescription she can’t be left on her own, so Nathan Whitlock comes to play nurse. They bicker, they squabble, but mostly, they gradually come to understand what went downhill in their relationship with Kavya, the person they love most - and who is currently in India, far, far away from them.

    Sometimes the way we show our love is not how the other person wants to be loved. Or how they needs to be loved. Or even deserves to be loved. This theme was examined in such a nuanced and compassionate way, that I teared up many, many times. It wasn’t tear-jerking per se, but it was full of heart and warmth and wholesomeness. The mother-daughter relationship was interesting. Nathan and Kavya failed marriage was interesting. The dynamics between mother and son-in-law were interesting. There’s just so much to unpack!

    An amazing book full of wisdom, and deeply human I highly recommend.

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  • Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be Alive
    Aug 30, 2026
    Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be AliveJenny Mustard
    4.5
    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 4.0Characters: 5.0Plot: 3.5
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    Reading Karro is like seeing some of Anna Karenina classic landmarks rise again, this time to form a new, spectacular skyline. The view is honestly breathtaking and I really appreciate the way Jenny Mustard reimagined Tolstoj’s classic.

    Karro has everything, a loving, wealthy husband, a happy son, her books (and all the time and resources to actually read them) - but a privileged life can only bring you so far. When she meets a younger American artist, she finds herself caught in an all-consuming affair.

    I picked this book up and couldn’t put it down. The pacing was great, the themes crisp, and the storytelling sensual and compelling. Switching between stream of consciousness, sharp dialogues, and back again, we are presented with Karro’s inner turmoil as she navigates the world. The psychology of Karro is delicately dissected, and I think the author did an excellent job at creating a full fledged, complex woman. I mean, whether you like it or not, Karro is a white, privileged, upper class woman. Her problems are ultimately rich-people problems created all by herself. Still, I had compassion for her and wanted Karro to succeed in her pursuit of happiness.

    I anticipate Karro to be a divisive read, as not all Karro’s choices might be appreciated amongst readers. But isn’t that the beauty of Literature? To be shown other perspectives and imagine what you would or wouldn’t do?

    I really liked this one!

    4.5 stars

    Thank you NetGalley and Penguin General UK for the ARC.

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    Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be Alive

    Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be Alive

    Jenny Mustard

    FROM THE CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED AUTHOR OF WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE'A novel of rare emotional intensity ... An exceptional achievement' Elaine FeeneyKarro is on the cusp of her fortieth birthday and wants for nothing. She is mother to a beautiful son, wife to a rising star in British politics, heir to an esteemed Swedish publishing house, and moneyed enough to wile away her days at home in affluent Highgate, with literature (and the occasional dose of opium) for company.But then Karro is introduced to visiting American artist Won-sik, and falls for him entirely, embarking on an affair which will derail her sedate existence. The societal repercussions will be immediate and severe. As she confronts her own desires and abandons her son in a desperate pursuit of happiness, her world and her sense of self begin to unravel.Intelligent, sensual and searingly honest, Karro moves slickly between London, a Swedish archipelago, New York City, and the Côte d’Azur, and asks what it means to fall from grace in the twenty-first century. It paints a psychologically astute portrait of a woman trying – and failing – to find herself in motherhood, and forces us to weigh up our obligations to family, to society, and most importantly, to ourselves.‘A measured and gorgeous writer, in command of the senses in a way that makes the reader feel alive' The New York Times Book Review'With echoes of Raven Leilani, Natalia Ginzburg and even Virginia Woolf ... I was blown away. Karro is easily Mustard’s masterpiece’ Molly Aitken

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    Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be Alive

    Karro: The exquisite, glimmering new novel from the author of What A Time to Be Alive

    Jenny Mustard

    FROM THE CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED AUTHOR OF WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE'A novel of rare emotional intensity ... An exceptional achievement' Elaine FeeneyKarro is on the cusp of her fortieth birthday and wants for nothing. She is mother to a beautiful son, wife to a rising star in British politics, heir to an esteemed Swedish publishing house, and moneyed enough to wile away her days at home in affluent Highgate, with literature (and the occasional dose of opium) for company.But then Karro is introduced to visiting American artist Won-sik, and falls for him entirely, embarking on an affair which will derail her sedate existence. The societal repercussions will be immediate and severe. As she confronts her own desires and abandons her son in a desperate pursuit of happiness, her world and her sense of self begin to unravel.Intelligent, sensual and searingly honest, Karro moves slickly between London, a Swedish archipelago, New York City, and the Côte d’Azur, and asks what it means to fall from grace in the twenty-first century. It paints a psychologically astute portrait of a woman trying – and failing – to find herself in motherhood, and forces us to weigh up our obligations to family, to society, and most importantly, to ourselves.‘A measured and gorgeous writer, in command of the senses in a way that makes the reader feel alive' The New York Times Book Review'With echoes of Raven Leilani, Natalia Ginzburg and even Virginia Woolf ... I was blown away. Karro is easily Mustard’s masterpiece’ Molly Aitken

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  • Tilted Sky
    Aug 27, 2026
    Tilted SkyYao Emei
    3.0
    Enjoyment: 2.5Quality: 3.0Characters: 1.5Plot: 3.0Audiobook: 4.0
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    Bai Jian lives with his dad who isn’t the most reliable person in the world, let alone a father figure. His mom is out of his life, and days go by without a proper meal or enough money to go to school. At 11 years old, all Bai Jian wants is an ordinary life.

    I always appreciate books that shine a light on vulnerable members of society. Bai Jian has to deal with many things that no child should be dealing with: hunger, poverty, unstable parent, abandonment… all important themes and I understand what the author tried to do here. I just don’t think the first person narrative worked in Bai Jian’s favor to be honest. That is because Bai Jian’s aware of his poor situation and pities himself out loud, what takes off the burden for me as a reader to do the work of feeling sorry for him.

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  • City Like Water
    Aug 24, 2026
    City Like WaterDorothy Tse
    4.0
    Enjoyment: 3.0Quality: 4.0Characters: 1.0Plot: 3.0
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    It took a bit for me to get into City Like Water, as the story was anything but straightforward in its approach. Instead, the story was captured through sentences meandering from thoughts to memories, from current events to past events, and switched at unexpected turns before flowing back again. It never explicitly told what happened, but nineteen short chapters together left us with an impression of the bigger picture.

    An unnamed narrator grew up in a city that no longer exists. Sometimes they think they see remains from the past, reminding them of the city as they knew it, but when the narrator searches in the history books, they find nothing. People seem to have disappeared, mother joins a group of protesters against fake food, father retracts himself in the television, and a sister may or may not be a false memory. It is elusive like water.

    I enjoyed reading this one, mainly because the city in City Like Water has so many references to Hong Kong. The city is mentioned nowhere in the book and could be any city in the world, but everything points to HK, from the food to the (political) events. But I also liked the book because of the dream-state and experimental approach. It required my full commitment to follow the story without trying to figure things out. Once I got the hang of it, it was like my eyes adjusted to the darkness and stars started to appear in the sky I swore was pitch-black a minute ago.

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  • The Man Who Died Seven Times
    Aug 22, 2026
    The Man Who Died Seven TimesYasuhiko Nishizawa
    3.0
    Enjoyment: 4.0Quality: 3.0Characters: 1.5Plot: 2.5Audiobook: 5.0
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    I love time-loop stories, because things tend to shake up when time glitches. Hisatoro’s condition makes him experience certain days nine times before the next starts. This opens up the opportunity for him to investigate his wealthy grandfather’s death during the annual family gathering.

    I listened to the audiobook and despite the number of characters, I found the story surprisingly easy to follow. This is probably because there were so many repetitions and explaining going on, so it was easy to digest all the information - but I can imagine that the overexplaining would have annoyed me if I were reading the book with my eyes.

    Fun and cozy and a tad eyebrow-raising because first-cousins-marriage was so casually included in the story that took place in the ‘90s.

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