I finally understand why this is called a book for the “older daughters.” Nora’s need for control and her almost rigid sense of order really resonates with me. That pressure to keep everything—and everyone—in place, even expecting perfection from the people in your life, feels strangely valid. It’s like she’s constantly trying to protect herself from anything going off track, making sure she always has solid ground to stand on—while also being that steady ground for others.

I’m really enjoying the story so far, and I’m especially curious about how Nora’s character will evolve. I’d love to see her soften a bit—to become more open to affection and allow herself to truly feel, instead of always holding everything together.