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lolabunny commented on M.G.reads's review of Norwegian Wood
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lolabunny commented on jacklie's review of Norwegian Wood
I think there is a lot of beauty in this book. Norwegian Wood is a novel where not very much happens plot-wise but it's somehow still very emotionally complex in a way that lingers with you. It's a coming of age story about Toru, a young Japanese man, trying to cope with loss, loneliness, and immense aimlessness in a society that seems to try and forcibly propel us all forward whether we know where we want to go or not. To me, Norwegian Wood is a very intimate portrait of a young man with depression. I think a lot of readers will find solace in the meaningless suffering that takes place in this book. It's awful, but it's life and this book embraces the nihilism of that with open arms and shows us that life goes on regardless.
This book would've appealed to me much more when I was younger, coming-of-age myself, and going through a lot of the same things as Toru. But as an adult woman, I struggled to follow the protagonist on his journey. In particular, I couldn't get pass the way Murakami represents the sexuality of his female characters. They have a very potent sexuality, but in a way that is almost exclusively focused on pleasing the male protagonist and earning his affection. There is something dehumanizing about this that unsettles me and I left every sex scene feeling deeply uncomfortable. I struggled as well with the non-consensual / dubiously consensual acts that took place between many characters. I think readers without a sensitivity to these subjects might have an easier time immersing themselves in this story.
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