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Summer 2026 Readalong
Read at least 1 book in the Summer 2026 Readalong.
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Swimming in the Dark
Tomasz Jedrowski
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What a delightful, charming read!! I really inhaled it. At times the characters can feel a little stiff or almost like caricatures, but somehow that became part of the book’s charm. The more time I spent with them, the more I appreciated the messy, complicated ways they navigated love, friendship, insecurity, and commitment. Colwin captures something very human: that relationships are rarely neat or rational, and yet there’s beauty in the confusion anyway. People can be flawed, uncertain, resistant, silly, and still be worthy of love and connection. ❣️
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Happy All the Time
Laurie Colwin
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This section really stayed with me because I know that feeling of jealousy all too well. It’s actually one of the emotions that frightens me most because, in the past, it has fueled behaviors I’m not proud of. There’s a part of me that worries my insecurities and jealous nature will ultimately become the thing that destroys all my romantic relationships.
That’s why I appreciate how Colwin interacted with jealousy. Instead of turning it into a dramatic rupture, she treated it as something deeply human. Jealoudy can be uncomfortable and irrational, but survivable. It can be felt, named, acknowledged, and even softened with humor by the end. This challenges the idea that jealousy automatically makes someone toxic or incapable of love.
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“A broken heart, Guido thought, was not the worst thing that can happen to an intelligent man who makes stupid choices in love.”
You gotta learn somehow, right?
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Happy All the Time
Laurie Colwin
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“…I wish for you not the world, nor the owning of it, nor even successful in it. I wish for you the ability to be free. And I hope that you experience some moments so tender and dear that they make up for a thousand harsh ones. Remember above all to always love. Love madly.”
This was another inspiring read that’s beautifully woven with politics, culture, and at its center, this deeply tender female friendship. I appreciated how honestly it explored the reality that loving someone doesn’t mean you won’t hurt them…that forgiveness can exist while the weight of the past still lingers.
It’s a powerful reminder that behind every political revolution are deeply personal stories, friendships, and losses. And some women, no matter what is taken from them, continue to be open to love, that they remain lionhearted. ❤️🩹
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The Lion Women of Tehran
Marjan Kamali