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silver.dichotomy

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My Taste
The Empress of Salt and Fortune (The Singing Hills Cycle, #1)
Annihilation (Southern Reach, #1)
Fahrenheit 451
The River Has Roots
The Hunger Games (The Hunger Games, #1)
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Dracula
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The Shadow of What Was Lost (The Licanius Trilogy, #1)
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You Better Be Lightning
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How to Read Literature Like a Professor: A Lively and Entertaining Guide to Reading Between the Lines, Revised Edition
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Bright Dead Things
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The Great Cosmic Mother: Rediscovering the Religion of the Earth
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Nancy Drew: The Palace of Wisdom
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One Way Witch (She Who Knows, #2)
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Yesteryear

Yesteryear

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silver.dichotomy commented on OhMyDio's review of Till Summer Do Us Part

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  • Till Summer Do Us Part
    OhMyDio
    May 12, 2026
    0.5
    Enjoyment: 0.5Quality: 0.5Characters: 0.5Plot: 0.5

    When I started the Summer of Swoon challenge I said I would assume the problem was me until proven otherwise, and BOWHOWDY did this prove otherwise!

    • I'm all for a quirky goofy plot where you just need to suspend disbelief and enjoy the ride, but this was entirely too much. Nothing about this plot makes sense. Aside from there being dozens of other ways Scottie could have navigated the fallout of telling the lie that she's married, literally a company operating this way would be shut down so fast. This is straight up cult behavior that is not only wildly inappropriate from an employer, but like, absolutely illegal. • I will never understand why m/f romances with a dual pov have SUCH different tones in their characters. Scottie is reserved and conservative in her demeanor and approach, while Wilder is just foul mouthed and crude (but framed as sexually confident.) Of course different people have different talking styles, but you don't have to make the MMC drop f bombs every other sentence to establish he has a different voice. • Aside from the swearing, though, basically all of these characters did talk the same. The "wit"/banter across all characters follows the same basic structure and style, making it feel very stale instead of funny and engaging. • We're still making prison rape jokes in 2025 and this shit needs to stop. I cannot fathom why that was left in. • I am wildly uncomfortable with the framing of "innocent, blossoming woman coming into her own" as a result of MMC's ministrations. It's disgusting and sexist and offputting. Wilder is just a fuckboi in a beanie, he is not some magical awakening. His basic ass behavior is lauded as the pinnacle of how men should treat women and it's exhausting. The bar is in hell. • Throughout the entire novel (literally until the last page) Wilder says that things are up to Scottie - she's in charge, it's her choice, he's there for her, she can do whatever she needs or wants - but at literally every step Wilder overrides Scottie and takes control of the situation. Be that what they talk about in the fake therapy sessions or in their sexual encounters, he is constantly saying one thing and then doing the opposite, and for some reason this is framed as sweet and caring and considerate. I know this sounds tin foil hat-esque, but this constant erosion of Scottie's preference and agency really feels like a targeted choice to subtly and slowly wear down the reader's idea of what "no" means. Does no mean no? Or does it mean "try harder" until she realizes you were right all along? I fucking hate it. • This is maybe just personal preference rearing up but I am so over MMC's telling the FMC's she's "a good girl" and "perfect" - it's just so damn cringe and surely we can expand? Does it have to be in literally every m/f romance?? See also anything related to "claiming" and "owning" which only ever seems to be the MMC over the FMC. my guy you just met her and you will never own her. its so GROSS the way straight dirty talk plays out in these books!! • The entire end is awful. Everything about it screams danger to me. It's manipulative, coercive, creepy, and just actually fucked up. I didn't care for the way Mika's mental health is handled, the way their mother is handled, the way Wilder woos Scottie - all of it was just gross and a giant pile of red flags. Not to mention the reveal about Sanders. wtf.

    There are many many more smaller points, but you get the idea. This is meant to be a wild and whacky tale but I was just Concerned™️ the entire time.

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    The Starving Saints

    The Starving Saints

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  • Bright Dead Things
    The Last Move (5%)

    I find the tension between the version of herself that was single and the version of herself in a new relationship quite interesting, especially the comparison of that old version of herself to a body at the bottom of a cistern.

    1. Why do you think some of the lines are placed in parentheses?
    2. What do you think she means by “the great heavy chest of live animals I had been dragging around for years”? Are these meant to be versions of herself she is still running from or something else?
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  • Bright Dead Things
    During the Impossible Age of Everyone (4%)

    I really like the emphasis on being connected to the greater expanse of individuals both past and present while balancing that with the fact that just because something has been done before doesn’t mean it has been by you. Everything can be new for you, and exalted as such.

    1. How do you think the three sections work together?
    2. To me, her comparison to a fence, cow, or yonder means that she is deeply connected to the endless nature of everything that came before her and everything that will come after her, and how she can’t possibly contain all of that without spilling over. What do you think it means?
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  • Bright Dead Things
    How To Triumph Like a Girl (3%)

    Similarly to her other bodies of work, LimĂłn never loses a focus on her connection to nature. She is always able to align her own experiences with something she finds beautiful or leaves her awestruck, or something she would like to emulate more of, like a lady horse.

    1. What kind of tone do you think opening the collection with this poem set?
    2. What do you think her desire to be like these horses says about her & her other desires?
    3. What do you think about the contrast between the “delicate skin of my body” and describing the female horse’s heart as “giant with power”?
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  • Unofficial Readalong Bright Dead Things- Week 1, Part 1

    Week 1 of our readalong begins today- feel free to refer back to the schedule post for more info (I don’t know how to link things yet so if anyone wants to link it in the comments feel free)! I have already started gradually posting the questions for each poem in Part 1, so feel free to read the poems at whatever pace is most comfortable for you. As a reminder, the way I have sectioned weeks for May is a little weird, and I will be posting at the start of each week/part to make sure everyone knows! This week will run from today, Friday, May 1st, to Saturday, May 9th. Feel free to use this as a home base for overall thoughts on Part 1 as a whole, or for any questions/thoughts/concerns that don’t feel like they fit neatly into the discussion posts for this part! I’m super excited to chat with you all on the first 17 poems in this collection :))

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  • silver.dichotomy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum

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  • Resurrection! (You Have the Power)

    I was thinking about this last night as I watched the last episode in the Vera TV show from the UK and felt they left too many avenues unexplored even though they had a long run.

    If you had the power to resurrect:

    A. A book series, for at least one more book; and B. A TV show, for at least one more season,

    which would you choose, and why?

    A. For television shows, in addition Vera, there is of course Firefly (the characters and world are wide-open for further exploration, given how limited the run was). Also, I quite liked Fringe, with John Noble and Anna Torv, and I would certainly have watched more episodes of that. I don't watch tons of TV so I may not have as many here as others.

    B. For books, I don't know if a Song of Ice and Fire is technically dead, but if so I'd resurrect that so I can actually read the ending. Also, more Conan stories, if I could save Robert Howard from his sad fate. I'd bring Octavia Butler back to finish her Parable books. Also, Rosemary Kirstein's Steerswoman books (which I'm hoping will still be finished).

    I could name more, and of course there are plenty of authors I'd love to bring back in general, but I'm limiting this post specifically to series.

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  • silver.dichotomy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum

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  • 📚 Bookish question #5

    Honestly, my mind is foggy so I have no clue if I have asked this question yet 😂 This is one of my favourite questions I see, I love seeing all of the different/similar opinions for this one!

    ✨ What is your LEAST favourite book trope and why?

    For me it definitely has to be memory loss tropes. Nope, cannot stomach them. Memory loss tropes have me stressing the whole time, I’m more stressed than the actual characters are 😩 I don’t think I have ever enjoyed a memory loss trope, I personally just do not see the appeal in them

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  • Tuesday Trivia & Tidbits - What did your reading teach you this week?

    Hello my big beautiful Boundling brains! It's that time of the week to show off what you learned through your books this week! Whether it's a quick trivia bite, personal insight, or deep dive - we wanna know!!

    My tidbit this week - I learned that I might be a fan of sports romances as long as the couple is about 30+ as someone who notoriously hates sports this is a shocking revelation to me haha

    What cha got this week, Boundlings??

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