i am claiming ryland grace for the aromantics and asexuals!! this man separated himself from the entire human race, went to live on a remote alien planet and never once did the thought that he would never date or have sex with anyone again cross his mind. he literally only cared about not seeing his students. the way that he was so weirded out when people thought he and stratt were sleeping together also, and the complete obliviousness to dr lokken having a crush on him. his relationship with rocky is so important to me btw, truly platonic soulmates
also very autistic coded man,,,, saw the movie with my dad and we were both like yeah he's so very on the spectrum, this guy gets along better with rock aliens than his own species.
I think it's part of what makes the story more powerful and real to me -- Offred isn't a perfect angelic victim, she's a normal woman, and she's done morally objectionable things, and yet she still doesn't deserve what is happening to her. I think if she was totally flawless the book would feel quite hollow
I knew there was something off about her relationship with Luke but I didn’t expect it to be an affair. Part of me is uneasy because I expected to feel unbridled sympathy for Offred and participating in cheating is one of the least sympathetic things to me. Another part of me is also pleased because it’s good for us to work through what it looks like to have empathy for imperfect people— people who have done horrible things, but are also in horrible situations of their own making or not. There’s not a single person on this earth who is a perfect saint and if we think that there are we deceive ourselves and refuse to do the work of sorting through things for ourselves.
That being said, I’m also wondering if perhaps there’s something else going on here. The word “flight“ makes me wonder if Luke’s wife is somehow bad or not his choice and that’s the reason for the infidelity. 
stardew commented...
I think it's part of what makes the story more powerful and real to me -- Offred isn't a perfect angelic victim, she's a normal woman, and she's done morally objectionable things, and yet she still doesn't deserve what is happening to her. I think if she was totally flawless the book would feel quite hollow