okay i am sorry. usually I am absolutely pro break-up and like finding somebody that you actually like and stuff. but. why is she complaining/surprised that nobody ever sees it coming? if you communicate honestly and talk to your partner, maybe yeah, but she makes it clear that she didn't tell him this. why should anybody just randomly expect a break-up? of course, there were red flags and everything. but his baseline was already off, since she didn't like him from the start and didn't tell him? how was he supposed to know if she never really liked him? so there was no real change? what signs was he supposed to notice? Sometimes, yes, there were signs and they were ignored and the person getting left was being obviously shitty but in this case I just don't see it 😅🤔