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The Memory Police
Yōko Ogawa
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Severance
Ling Ma
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Hanna Bervoets
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The Guest
Emma Cline
neele_hihi finished reading and wrote a review...
Feels weird to rate this book now that the author has passed but I was reminded of this book through it. I read it a while ago. It was a quick and easy read. Relatable at times but from what I recall sometimes it felt like the book told me that my problems aren't actually that deep and I'm not actually that mentally ill. I don't know how to explain it but it felt like medical gaslighting at times. I'm not sure if this was just because of the state I was in when I read it but that was what I thought then. I might reread it at some point to see if my opinion has changed.
neele_hihi commented on a post
Yeah no, I'm putting this book as "DNF" for now. Maybe I'll revisit it another time but Connell just annoys the shit out of me. I'm not doing this to myself, at least not for the time being
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Honest first impression: I don't like the writing style. The missing quotation marks irritate me (there have been other books where it barely bothered me but here it is hard for me to fully the dialogues). I have trouble picturing the characters and their surroundings so far. Let's see where this goes. This is the first time I'm reading a book I know from social media so I'm really interested to see whether it will live up to the hype
neele_hihi finished reading and wrote a review...
So normally I do not add books as DNF but as paused because I assume that coming back to the book later will somehow make me want to read it more. But for this book... no. I love stories about messy characters who make stupid choices. But Connell just is such an insufferable character. He suffers from pretty much nothing, struggles with nothing that even remotely explains his behavior. He just genuinely feels like a character who sucks because he is a man and he feels like he can. I actually like the plot and I like other characters or at least feel like they are redeemable but I just can not deal with the typical white man who faces miiiinor problems and therefore thinks he can just get away with it
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Normal People
Sally Rooney
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Yeah no, I'm putting this book as "DNF" for now. Maybe I'll revisit it another time but Connell just annoys the shit out of me. I'm not doing this to myself, at least not for the time being
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"He often makes blithe remarks about things he 'wishes'. I wish you didn't have to go, he says when she's leaving, or: I wish you could stay the night. If he really wished for any of those things, Marianne knows, then they would happen. Connell always gets what he wants, and then feels sorry for himself when what he wants doesn't make him happy."
This. Exactly this. I'm sorry but he sucks. I'm so tired of having to empathize with male characters because they struggle (meanwhile their struggle is not even half as conflicting as what most girls in this world go through and still the girls are expected to handle their stuff more gracefully.
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"He often makes blithe remarks about things he 'wishes'. I wish you didn't have to go, he says when she's leaving, or: I wish you could stay the night. If he really wished for any of those things, Marianne knows, then they would happen. Connell always gets what he wants, and then feels sorry for himself when what he wants doesn't make him happy."
This. Exactly this. I'm sorry but he sucks. I'm so tired of having to empathize with male characters because they struggle (meanwhile their struggle is not even half as conflicting as what most girls in this world go through and still the girls are expected to handle their stuff more gracefully.
neele_hihi commented on a post
Whooo boy, I forget how emotionally draining it is to be a teenager… and Marianne bb girl, why Connell? (I know why but like come on 😭)
It’s giving girl falls for guy that does the bare minimum (even less so rn) and idk if I can stomach this if that’s what this book entails…
We shall see
neele_hihi commented on a post
So far I'm sorry to say but I don't like Connell at all. I get that he has to pretend to fit in but honestly no. Maybe it's because i just finished reading "Sunburn" by Chloe Michelle Howarth which also features this kind of conflict between the life others expect you to live and the life you want to live. In "Sunburn" the at times shitty actions of the main character feel somewhat redeemable because she is closeted in a homophobic town. In this book, Connell just seems like an ass who doesn't know his priorities. Maybe I just expect too much maturity from a teenage boy character but still. I don't like him
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So far I'm sorry to say but I don't like Connell at all. I get that he has to pretend to fit in but honestly no. Maybe it's because i just finished reading "Sunburn" by Chloe Michelle Howarth which also features this kind of conflict between the life others expect you to live and the life you want to live. In "Sunburn" the at times shitty actions of the main character feel somewhat redeemable because she is closeted in a homophobic town. In this book, Connell just seems like an ass who doesn't know his priorities. Maybe I just expect too much maturity from a teenage boy character but still. I don't like him