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SHE/HER ⟡ 28 ⟡ NORWAY finding (back to) myself one step and one book at a time❣️ feat. some balkan temperament, but mostly just a scandi inclination towards hygge

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  • The Count of Monte Cristo
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    "The count and Ali ate in haste a crust of bread and drank a glass of Spanish wine;"

    Ah yes. Dinner of champions.

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  • Layla and Majnun
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    1.5
    Enjoyment: 0.5Quality: 2.0Characters: 0.5Plot: 2.5

    i expected this to be an epic love story, considering how old the book is, but it just did nothing to me.

    so, after it seems that his love with layla will come to an obstacle, instead of trying to impress her father, kais decides to become majnun (a madman). he leaves his family, goes to the desert, to the cage, walks around naked, eats grass and that somehow gained so much empathy since the book was out. it honestly made me so irritated, somehow people from around the town were coming, all impressed by him and his songs...

    i just don't know, didn't like it at all, it dissapointed me and i didn't find myself in it.. you try for yourself and let me know what you think.

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  • For those whose native language is not English!!

    I’m so curious, and I have too many questions about everyone’s relationship to reading in English vs. reading in ur native language.

    Do you pay it any mind? Is this something you actively try to balance? Can you decide to pick up a book translated from English to your native language?

    Also for the people who, in addition to English and their native language, have a heritage language* they can read in. How comfortably can you read in your heritage language? Does that require A LOT of focus and effort like it does for me? In that case, how often do you make time for that focus and effort?

    * = i was unfamiliar w this concept for a long time, so pasting this here from wikipedia for convenience: "A heritage language is a minority language (either immigrant or indigenous) learned by its speakers at home as children, and difficult to be fully developed because of insufficient input from the social environment."

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    Flawless: Lessons in Looks and Culture from the K-Beauty Capital

    Flawless: Lessons in Looks and Culture from the K-Beauty Capital

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  • For those whose native language is not English!!

    I’m so curious, and I have too many questions about everyone’s relationship to reading in English vs. reading in ur native language.

    Do you pay it any mind? Is this something you actively try to balance? Can you decide to pick up a book translated from English to your native language?

    Also for the people who, in addition to English and their native language, have a heritage language* they can read in. How comfortably can you read in your heritage language? Does that require A LOT of focus and effort like it does for me? In that case, how often do you make time for that focus and effort?

    * = i was unfamiliar w this concept for a long time, so pasting this here from wikipedia for convenience: "A heritage language is a minority language (either immigrant or indigenous) learned by its speakers at home as children, and difficult to be fully developed because of insufficient input from the social environment."

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  • Goddess of the River
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    FOR PART 2: my attempt at making sense of the family tree

    imma just come out and say it! that family tree on the first pages might as well have been written in sanskrit, i would have understood just as much😭😭 those two pages had me like this, again and again:

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    so i got to work😌 and here’s my interpretation of the family tree with the disclaimer that i have never studied the Mahabharata i.e. my knowledge is limited. therefore, pls correct me if i have something down wrong.

    before i get to it (i promise i will soon), here are some notes about the significance of the formatting:

    • {name in bold and in curly brackets}: very significant for the events in the following/current generation
    • name in bold: important person, this name is relevant for the further lineage.
    • name in italics: might be an important person in the story, but not that central to understanding the lineage
    • as i move down the lineage, some names get "downgraded" in their formatting, as their relevance to understanding further lineage decreases

    so here goes:

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    THE STORY STARTS IN THE GENERATION OF SHANTANU

    Shantanu has Devavrata aka Bhishma by his first wife, Ganga in her human form (Jahnavi). He goes exclusively by Devavrata in the first part of the story. As the POV shifts from Ganga to him, he is going by Bhishma.

    Those two are also the chacracters through whom this story is told (for now, at least).

    〰️〰️〰️

    THE SECOND GENERATION

    Shantanu then weds Satyavati (a "commoner") many years after Ganga has returned to being a river.

    In addition to Bhishma from his first marriage, he fathers the sons Vichitravirya and Chitrangada by her.

    None of his three sons produce heirs, for different reasons. His third son, Vichitravirya does get married to the sisters Ambika and Ambalika (not Amba, though, the third sister, who is also mentioned in the family tree). Unfortunately, Ambika and Ambalika end up widowed.

    Satyavati also has a son outside her marriage with Shantanu. Shantanu does not adopt him, as far as I understand it, and he initially lives outside the palace. His name is {Vyasa} (important).

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    Summary of the Second Generation

    • Shantanu + Ganga (1st wife) = Bhishma/ Devavrata (goes by both)
    • Shantanu + Satyavati (2nd wife) = second and third sons, Vichitravirya and Chitrangada
    • Satyavati (2nd wife) + a union before marriage to Shantanu = {Vyasa}, her first son

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    THE THIRD GENERATION

    {Vyasa} becomes very important to the whole dynasty after Shantanu’s sons all fail to produce an heir.

    Now, the royal line continues through {Vyasa}, as he fathers children by the widows Ambika and Ambalika (widows of Shantanu's son). Those children are:

    • {Dhritarashtra}, the firstborn, who is blind and judged unfit to rule because of that.
    • {Pandu}, the younger brother, who ends up ruling instead.
    • Vidura, third brother, whom he fathers through a maid.

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    Summary of the Third Generation

    • Vyasa + Ambika = {Dhritarashtra}
    • Vyasa + Ambalika = {Pandu}
    • Vyasa + a maid = Vidura

    〰️〰️〰️

    Where are we in the story when Bhishma's POV begins?

    I think the third generation of Dhritarashtra and Pandu are middle-aged, and their children, the fourth generation, range from being children to late teens.

    This means Bhishma aka Ganga’s son is the only surviving offspring of Shantanu, and he is now already an old man. People address him as Pitamaha (grandfather).

    〰️〰️〰️

    THE FOURTH GENERATION

    {Dhritarashtra} and {Pandu} have each fathered their own two groups of children, and this is where the heart of the story lies.

    When the story commences in part two, {Dhritarashtra} is the one ruling Hastinapur, even though {Pandu} had originally been made king because Dhritarashtra was considered unfit to rule due to his blindness. However, something happens so {Dhritarashtra} becomes the de facto ruler.

    Their children are referred to as such:

    • Dhritarashtra's 100 sons = {the Kauravas}
    • Pandu's 5 sons = {the Pandavas}

    Alongside Dhritarashtra, these children are some of the important characters we get introduced to in those first chapters of part two.

    The main thing to remember is that the two groups of children split into two opposing family factions, which are respectively called the {Kauravas} and the {Pandavas}. It’s also useful to remember a couple of key characters on each side:

    The main {Kaurava} brother is {Duryodhana}, who is also the heir to the throne.

    The main {Pandava} brothers seem to be {Yudhishthira}, {Arjuna}, and {Bhima}

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    Summary of the Fourth Generation

    • Dhritarashtra + Gandhari* = {the Kauravas} = {Duryodhana} and 99 others (born through a mythic process)
    • Pandu + Kunti and Madri (his two wives) = {the Pandavas} = {Yudhishthira}, {Arjuna}, {Bhima} and two other sons

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    OTHER CHARACTERS IN THE BIG FAMILY TREE

    * = Shakuni The wife of Dhritarashtra, Gandhari, has a brother. That is Shakuni, and he is also included in the family tree. As far as I understand it, he is a shady, scheming figure on the Kaurava side.

    Draupadi All five {Pandavas} are married to her. They all have children by her, but the only child mentioned in the book's family tree is Abhimanyu, who is Arjuna's son from a different marriage.

    〰️〰️〰️ 🏞️🔹🌀🏞️🔹🌀🏞️ I have NO IDEA if this is any easier than the family tree for other people than me, but I hope it helps at least someone make some more sense of the very interesting Kuru lineage (aka the lineage of this royal family).

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  • Alternatives to the Kindle app?

    I have been reading ebooks on my phone in the kindle app for years now but have wanted to switch to something else for a while. I am not a fan of amazon and my kindle library is an absolute mess of missing covers and strange formatting after recent updates and I just want to leave it behind. Is anyone using other apps that you're happy with and works similarly? I mostly get ebooks through libby so I would really like something that is compatible with that. I'd love to hear what you all are using and would recommend!

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  • A Tale for the Time Being
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    The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life's Final Moments

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