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stardusttea

ADHD reader with 30+ books open and no regrets. 🌍social worker powered by self-help, psych, sociology, fantasy, and playlists for my fav ships.

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Fall 2025 Readalong
Made for the Movies
Classic Literature from the United States
My Taste
The Host (The Host, #1)
Wings (Wings, #1)
Vampire Academy (Vampire Academy, #1)
Angelfall (Penryn & the End of Days, #1)
My Dark Vanessa
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FleshThe Serviceberry: Abundance and Reciprocity in the Natural WorldThe Psychology of Human SexualityMaybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives RevealedBrave New WorldCome as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex LifeThe Spellshop

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    It’s heartbreaking to read such a first person account of something so terrible. I feel really bad for this 15-year-old boy who is so isolated, and such an “easy” victim. As a Hungarian woman, the book is very interesting for me to read. I think the small details of the dessert, food, and the balcony windows make a lot more visual sense to me than maybe to someone who hasn’t grown up in Hungary, especially within this time. Extremely well-written. I can feel my own language despite reading in English. Proud of this award for us! Definitely not a comfortable read, despite the (currently) easy language. I wonder if the vocabulary difficulty will increase as we follow this boy’s growth into a man.

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    Not sure how I feel about all the social media advice. I get that it can be used well, if used well, but I think this didn’t age great. Nowadays with the algorithm pushing certain types of content, it’s hard to really get consistently empowering, feminist information that helps you grow in your feed. At least for me, people either repeat the same videos they always make with a slightly changing formula or they have wonderful deep dives that get buried from the information overload

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    How to Win an Information War: The Propagandist Who Outwitted Hitler

    How to Win an Information War: The Propagandist Who Outwitted Hitler

    Peter Pomerantsev

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    Wifedom: Mrs. Orwell's Invisible Life

    Wifedom: Mrs. Orwell's Invisible Life

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    The Book of Hope: A Survival Guide for Trying Times

    The Book of Hope: A Survival Guide for Trying Times

    Jane Goodall

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  • The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom
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    Dec 29, 2025
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    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 5.0Characters: 4.0Plot: 4.0
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    Heartbreaking memoir of the oldest sibling survivor of child abuse. Shari Franke has a strong voice that makes the reader stick to the pages. While it’s their personal journey, I found myself wondering if she published this book too soon. The demonization of her mother while describing her father as a saint seems to take away from his neglectful parenting. But at the same time, it’s a very clear and honest representation of Shari’s state of mind about what her childhood was like at the time of publishing. Wish her and her siblings all the safety and healing there is!

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  • Women Don't Owe You Pretty
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    Dec 29, 2025
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    A 21-year-old’s writing on intersectional feminism. It’s a good starter for a teenager, but definitely not a lot of content for most people who are interested in the topic. Other people have said it better, that most of the book sounds like a written-out Instagram feed. There were some tangible lists of examples for things like various types of privilege, bad vs good apologies, and healthy vs unhealthy relationship patterns that I appreciated, but again, figured I out myself from self-work and therapy. If the topic feels intimating, this is an alright start, but there is better (less white and more experienced!) work out there. I got irritated occasionally on the moral superiority sounding language Given occasionally slipped into. It is something the author acknowledged they participated in.

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    “If it’s not a “fuck yes”, it’s a “no”

    “A lot of people are reluctant to ask for consent because they feel like asking “kills the mood.” But you know what really kills the mood? Sexually assaulting someone. Taking a second to consider your partner and check that you’re both on the same page shows maturity, high levels of emotional intelligence, and respect for their boundaries.”

    OH OKAY 🔥🔥🔥

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    Not sure how I feel about all the social media advice. I get that it can be used well, if used well, but I think this didn’t age great. Nowadays with the algorithm pushing certain types of content, it’s hard to really get consistently empowering, feminist information that helps you grow in your feed. At least for me, people either repeat the same videos they always make with a slightly changing formula or they have wonderful deep dives that get buried from the information overload

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    The Serviceberry: Abundance and Reciprocity in the Natural World

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    Feeling a bit repetitive. This might be from reading feminist work before this one. Could have used it when I was younger to start off!

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    Bachelors and Bunnies: The Sexual Politics of Playboy

    Bachelors and Bunnies: The Sexual Politics of Playboy

    Carrie Pitzulo

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