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theodenreads

he/him | '98 | trans + polyam fantasy, beloved 🙏 | 🇵🇸🏳️‍⚧️

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Dia de los Muertos 2025
Fall 2025 Readalong
Level 7
My Taste
Luck in the Shadows (Nightrunner, #1)
The Ruin of Kings (A Chorus of Dragons, #1)
Evocation (The Summoner’s Circle, #1)
One Day, Everyone Will Have Always Been Against This
The Message
Reading...
The Prince of KnavesThe Lack of LightKiller on the RoadThe Stone Sky (The Broken Earth, #3)Without Sin: The Life and Death of the Oneida CommunityQueer Palestine and the Empire of Critique

theodenreads commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum

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  • Trans Rights Readathon anticipation

    I know it's not even the end of January but I am so damn excited about the Trans Rights readathon. I'm not even like, an ambassador or anything, I've just participated the last 2 years and it's been the highlight of my year both times.

    I realised I was trans shortly after the first time I participated, so the event holds a special place in my heart.

    Anyone else participating? It's going to be from the 17th of March to the 31st of March (which is the Trans Day of Visability) this year. I managed to read 10 books in 10 days last year (I am a feral but biobliophilic animal) so I might go 14 for 14 this year.

    There's more info here: https://transrightsreadathon.carrd.co/

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  • Howling 🐺

    How is there not a quest about werewolves? We have vampires, but no werewolves. I’m requesting a Howling at the Moon quest.

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  • theodenreads commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum

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  • Western Novels you want anime adaptations from

    A few months ago I watched a recent Anne of the Green Gables adaptation called Anne Shirley which was an anime

    I really enjoyed it! And it made me wonder what other books could work well in an anime format

    I thought about asking for classics first but I think modern books should get the anime treatment too

    Imagine a gideon the ninth adaptation by studio trigger for example!

    What western novel (or multiple novels) would you all like to be turned into an anime adaptation?

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  • changing book ratings when things go south

    So I've been updating my Pagebound shelves to reflect my old reads saved in my Notion library, and I've noticed that I have several books with very high ratings, since I really enjoyed them when I read them.

    However, in the last couple of weeks, I've been reading posts here about the authors of some of those books, people who have done some nasty things or have views on the world I don't agree with. Since then, I've been thinking of changing the ratings I initially gave to these reads, since I feel like I don't want to give my support to these readers by making their works more known.

    What do y'all think?

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  • Favourite things to do while listening to audiobooks?

    What's everyone's favourite activity to keep their hands/eyes occupied while listening to audiobooks? I often end up listening while doing chores but obviously chores suck. I thoroughly enjoy sitting down to Eurotruck simulator 2 with an audiobook in my ears though. Fully engages all my senses without being overwhelming, it's actually so relaxing for me!

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  • theodenreads commented on theodenreads's review of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

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  • The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go
    theodenreads
    Jul 02, 2025
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    The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy offers much needed insight into the practice of non-monogamous relationships through a variety of lenses that are not often considered in most books on the topic. 

    As a polyamorous person myself, I found this read to be very helpful for myself, and thought it was important that it took into consideration aspects of my identity that are often left out of discussions of polyamory. As the title suggests, one of the big themes that this book hits on is how mental health can impact the types of difficulties one might or might not face in their non-monogamous journey. On top of mental health, this book also brings up perspectives on race, disability, class, sexuality, and gender identity. It was refreshing to see a book about non-monogamy bring up the different ways identity can impact people's lives and the ways they move about relationships! 

    I specifically appreciated the fact that asexuality was brought up as often as it was, as most of the time, people on the asexual/aromantic spectrum are left out of discussions on non-monogamy (or if not let out, then generalized). This is probably the first book on non-monogamy that satisfied me in that aspect.

    Apart from offering great insight, this book also does a good job of addressing non-monogamy vs monogamy in a way that is affirming no matter what relationship style the reader might practice. Many books on non-monogamy fall into the trap of claiming that anyone who chooses not to practice it is somehow failing because of it, but this one assures the reader that ultimately, the choice is up to them, and that they won't be wrong if they do choose to be monogamous. 

    This guide also contains multiple workbook sections that ask the reader to address different type of scenarios or struggles they might face, and I found the questions asked to be very helpful in unpacking why you might be feeling a certain way, or what you might plan to do in a specific situation. 

    Overall, this book was lovely in every sense and I'm glad that it's being put into the world! I would recommend it to anyone interested in exploring non-monogamy, but I think it would also be massively helpful to monogamous folks as well! 

    Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an eARC of this title in exchange for an honest review! 

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  • how do you categorise a book into YA or Adult???

    Okay, I have a question for anyone who reads both YA and adult books. How do you categorise a book into YA or Adult??? Interestingly enough, I don't have this problem with caegorising Middlegrade v YA, but I keep having this issue with older characters in books. If the characters are teens and in high school, I always say it's YA no matter what the subject matter is about because I honestly have never encountered a book dark or triggering enough that I wouldn't have been happy to figuratively pass it along to younger me. But, here's my issue: why is the line between YA (possibly being called older YA, but I'm really not sure) and new adult so god damn blurry? Like, for example, are there people out there categorising the Off-Campus series by Elle Kennedy as YA? Because the main characters are 20, and as far as I'm aware, that means that they're no longer children. Unless in the US, you see anyone under 21 as a child?? I've been having this issue for years now, so of course, now that I'm bringing it up, I can't think of any other examples, but I swear, whenever I read a book that I would personally categorise as New Adult (age 18ish - 25), it's in the YA section. A big one that I know I used to see A LOT (and it's always with female writers and a lot of the time in Fantasy) was the ACOTAR series by SJM. It's 100% for adults but was marketed to teenagers for YEARS. I'm honestly just baffled by the whole thing and wondering if I've gotten my wires crossed at some point and have been going about this all the wrong way. I'd be really curious to know anyone's thoughts!

    some context for how I categorise age ranges: The Raven Boys - YA (teenagers) The Sun and the Starmaker - New Adult (18 yr old mc, chosen one kind of deal) ACOTAR series - Adult (Feyre is 19 in book 1, and there is a lot of smut throughout the series) The House in the Cerulean Sea - Adult (adult mcs even though I know some people like to automatically say that anything cozy is ya) Wayward Children series - YA (I could absolutely be persuaded to change this to NA in the future if the characters get older, but most of these are about teens atm so... YA) Emily Wilde's Encyclopaedia of Faeries - Adult (Emily is 30) Assistant to the Villain - New Adult (Evie is 23)

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  • I am SEATED and ready

    I love being sad LETS GO gif of a man enthusiastically getting his lawn chair out (Also if u saw my post with a busted ass link no you didn't, I'm just bad at markdowns)

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  • Tragically Beautiful

    I'm in adoration of my lovely new silver badge. What have folks read so far from this quest, and which particularly would you recommend?

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  • I am SEATED and ready

    I love being sad LETS GO gif of a man enthusiastically getting his lawn chair out (Also if u saw my post with a busted ass link no you didn't, I'm just bad at markdowns)

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  • theodenreads commented on LadySeven's review of Lord of Eternal Night (Darkmourn Universe, #1)

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  • Lord of Eternal Night (Darkmourn Universe, #1)
    LadySeven
    Mar 14, 2025
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    This is my last attempt at a Ben Alderson book. I blocked him on tiktok so his vids promoting his books don't show on my feed anymore because I can't stand it.
    The cover art is so pretty, the premises are compelling but his writting is atrocious. I just can't. I'll have to get my fix of gay vampires elsewhere.

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