i want you to eat well // 年上感的魅力
年上 (v.) used to describe a lover who's older than you, and often referring specifically to lovers who are cool and composed in most situations, and who openly favour you, spoiling and doting on you with everything they have
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last updated May, 2026
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i haven't read danmei but this list is so sweet 🥺
it's one of my fav romance tropes ever!!
the title of this list is so damn sweet 🥹 obsessed with it !!!
yayy ty!! i went back and forth a little trying to decide on an english title bc none of the direct translations/descriptions worked, so it's nice to hear that the one i settled on is being received well hehe
of course 🥹🫶🏼 i’d say you landed on a great one!! there’s something just so romantic about the care and concern of that statement too? it melts my heart 😭
yes exactly!! it's the exact vibe these books give me, bc the older lovers take on a bit of a caretaker role and they always treat their partners with the same kind of attentive care
edit: i just remembered 黄金笼 is in here too... it's still accurate for a given definition of "attentive care," let's put it that way
WAIT I LOVE THAT SM 😭 sometimes we all just need someone to take care of us that way 🥺❤️
A great list, and also, where would I find such a lover? Asking for a friend of course 🙂↕️
lmk if you find out!! i'd believe in love if i can get myself a partner like this irl 🙂↕️
That's so valid 🥲
