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I find myself coming back to this quest everytime I sense a reading slump approaching and without fail, the books on this quest manage to pull me out of a slump. I am a romantic at heart so I love reading about charatcers falling in love. But I often find that Romantasy (and SFF that put too much emphasis on the romance), sometimes create plot points for the express purpose of causing angst for our love interests. While that's not necessarily a bad thing, I personally find subplot romance to feel a bit more natural and true to how people really fall in love and build connections through shared experiences and values.
So what draws you to books with romantic subplots? What about this genre appeals to you and how does it compare to SFF with more/less romance? What is the sweet spot for you?
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Dominican families have never been more toxic.
You Should've Been Nicer to My Mom by Vincent Tirado is pitched as a gothic horror novel aiming to deconstruct all which rots Dominican culture to its core. From the double standards faced by women compared to men, the incessant gossiping over one's misfortunes after feigning sympathy, to the harsh treatment of our Haitian neighbors, we cover quite a bit of ground.
Tirado has no problem capturing what being around these people are like. The overwhelming perfumes, the fake intimacy as they kiss your cheek in greeting, how one minute you're receiving all the info about someone's personal life and the next you're the subject of all the gossip. It's entirely overwhelming, and we see how our main character, Xiomara, never really knows how to feel about her family from one moment to the next.
My main issue with this novel centers around the characters. While we've captured the worst behaviors on the surface, all of these characters are entirely two-dimensional. We do not attain a greater understanding of anyone in this novel, and I would argue it's because, while Tirado knows this class of person quite intimately, they do not understand where this behavior originates. And because we aren't fully deconstructing the why, it feels as though we, like the gossips which this book condemns, are simply meant to relish in this family's misfortune. No further thought necessary.
Also, I hate to say it but I do find the demon and all the horror which comes with its existence painfully underwhelming. It feels as though it was added in a later draft with how little most of the family members care about the mystery. The sleuthing also felt rather weak, and I earnestly believe if we omitted that element from the book entirely and kept a similar ending, we could've worked more on characterization and this would be a better book for it.
All in all, this book is a fun ride but I wouldn't recommend it unless someone needs to know why I don't go to family reunions.
P.S. Also wouldn't recommend this audiobook. While I love having a Dominican narrator, the narrator in question does not attempt to alter her voice for different characters whatsoever.
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