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"How strange to feel something so close to mercy, whatever that was, and stranger still that it should be found in here of all places, at the end of a road of ruined houses by a toxic river. That among a pile of salvaged trash, he would come closest to all he ever wanted to be: a consciousness sitting under a lightbulb reading his days away, warm and alone, alone and yet, somehow, still somebody's son."
I felt very disconnected from this book when I started reading it, probably because I was overwhelmed by all the descriptions of the characters' surroundings. Vuong is an astounding writer, but I had the same experience with his prior novel where it took me a while to really get into the story. Once I did, though, there was no going back. His characters are always so nuanced and the realistically complex depiction of their emotions makes it very easy to relate to them. Found family is a big theme in the novel, and I especially enjoyed the caretaking aspect. Hai and Grazina's relationship had both the sweetest and saddest interactions I've read in a while, but many of the other characters broke my heart as well. Sony, Hai's mother, the workers at HomeMarket... Everyone had a story and a different perspective on life.
This novel is so tender, raw and even funny at times, but the biggest takeaway for me is kindness. How much better everything is when we take time to understand each other, and when we can't, listening and being there is enough.
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The Tortoise's Tale: A Novel
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The Emperor of Gladness
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Mestra: A Short Story
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booksfordani commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
hullohhhh! I just picked up west hollywood monster squad and am so excited, but I'd love some more recs from the community of books that take place in LA, past, present or future. or in socal!
would love: mystery, thriller, graphic novels, realistic fiction, queer and POC stories, speculative, short stories, sci fi!
open to horror, romance, fantasy (pref not high fantasy bc I have trouble understanding world building)
thank u :) will add them all to a shelf/list!
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There’s so many contemporary romances nowadays and it’s all “OO sex!” “Miscommunication!” “Let’s go on a date!” I. WANT. MORE. All these damn women and where’s the period comfort? Where’s sick comfort? Where’s the AFTERCARE? Where’s someone getting in a fight and not having a “who did this to you” but just them being taken care of? I’m in need of soft sweetness and I am bereft
I’m in the trenches people. Give me your best romances with the gentle moments on page!!
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"[...] he asked the soldier if he ever considered getting a prosthetic ear, recalling how his mother once gave a pedicure to a woman with a missing calf."
Didn't this happen in On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous too? I recall Little Dog's mother massaging the woman with the phantom limb. Is Vuong doing this on purpose, conflating both stories to show similarities between the mother-son relationships?
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"[...] he asked the soldier if he ever considered getting a prosthetic ear, recalling how his mother once gave a pedicure to a woman with a missing calf."
Didn't this happen in On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous too? I recall Little Dog's mother massaging the woman with the phantom limb. Is Vuong doing this on purpose, conflating both stories to show similarities between the mother-son relationships?
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Time Is a Mother
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does anyone know any channels, apps or websites with free audiobooks? If so please share!!
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Ring Shout
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