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This started off very slow for me, so I'm hoping it picks up soon... I had to relisten to the first part a couple of times (but I get distracted easily).
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The Hacienda
Isabel Cañas
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I'll be thinking about this book for weeks. Part of the reason I was so nervous about reading it was because I had thought this book was more for a middle-aged audience (like Phoebe and Gary's age), but I found that the message was universal and that the earlier you learn it, the happier you'll be. It was a reminder to choose happiness, as hard as it may be. A reminder that everything is temporary, the good and the bad, and that appreciating the present moment is worth the effort. Phoebe and Lilah were the perfect characters to send this message. Phoebe was someone who lived the experience of a marriage that was once happy but turned sour, and Lilah was someone who was brave enough to heed both Phoebe's advice and the warning signs Lilah had already noticed. As someone who dreams of finding my person one day, this book showed me the importance of being yourself around the people you love, letting go sometimes, and that there is never a "right time." While I would love to recommend this book to everyone I encounter, I think it's important to note that it was a struggle to get through the first little bit only because I thought I would never stop crying. You have to be in a good headspace to start the book. Thankfully, the book turns hopeful after a few chapters but there are definitely still moments throughout that were difficult. Had the book not continued to revive hope in the reader, I don't think I would have been able to finish. All in all, you'll definitely cry while reading this book, but you'll almost certainly laugh as well. I highly recommend listening to the audiobook as the narrator was perfect.
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The Wedding People
Alison Espach
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I love that by becoming everyone else's therapist, Phoebe's able to work through her own stuff. Also, I'm a little confused why people think that Phoebe is(/was?) an unlikeable character? She seems like an amazing person; she's so kind to everyone even if they're not kind to other people. I'd love to hear someone's thoughts on this :)
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I've definitely already cried a few times already. I think it just presses a little too hard into my fear of abandonment, especially because I can see myself a lot in Phoebe. However, I'm hoping that since it's starting off so sad it can only get more hopeful from here. So far, I'm loving the character development. Phoebe feels very real; I can see the good things about her as well as her flaws, and even why she is the way she is. I'm genuinely rooting for her so hard right now. I feel like I've only gotten the tiniest glimpse into Lilah's character, but I'm sure there's more to come. Even though I, of course, think she's being selfish about Phoebe's situation, I'm starting to see why she's acting the way she is and have at least a tad bit of empathy for her. Current rating: 3.5
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I'm a little nervous going into this book as it's completely out of my comfort zone, but that's part of the reason why I picked it. I fear it'll be one of those books that puts me into an existential spiral and leave me questioning my life choices and depressed about the way my life is currently going, BUT I'm hoping the humor that the blurb is promising will ease the anxiety. Reading through a couple reviews, I am a little doubtful, however, that the humor will get me through it as it seems the novel is less funny and more heavy. We'll see!
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The Wedding People
Alison Espach
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