Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
Hey everyone!
Quick question, since I am relatively new to the platform and am not sure (sorry of this is already been addressed somewhere).
When you read books in another language, do they not count for the readlong? I couldn't get my hands on physical copy of A Dowry of Blood in English, and I kobo ebook was slightly more expensive than the ebook, so I just bought the PT version and added it here. But it seems it hasn't counted, which is a bit sad.
Does anyone know?
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
because hereās the thing. when dark romance hits?? when itās done RIGHT??? ITāS EVERYTHING. itās addictive. itās raw, messed-up, healing, violent, tender, and literally made to make you feel unsafe but understood.
but when itās BAD⦠oh weāre entering the trenches of wattpad wattpaddery. the type of books that make u want to call CPS on the author.
š¶ļø THE SPICE VS THE STORYLINE BATTLE
letās just get this out the way: spice ā plot.
āhe choked her against the wallā is not character development. I am BEGGING.
i want twisted, obsessive, dangerous love, YES ā but i want it to mean something. if youāre gonna give me a stalker, give me one who journals about it. if you're gonna give me a killer, give him existential guilt and a soft spot for dogs (*cough AARON WARNER) or something .
like I do NOT want to read 300 pages of two people having hate-$egs. sir thatās āØjustā© NOT ENOUGH. give me the angst. the longing. the unearned loyalty. the twisted logic of āi know heās bad but heās only bad for me š©.ā
if heās morally grey and lwk unhinged but he breaks when she cries?? iām sold. if he says āiād burn the world down for youā and then actually does it??? THATāS LITERATURE RIGHT THERE. OBSESSEDDDDD
do i need therapy? probably. but also: fictional red flags donāt count. iām not defending serial killers irl, iām reading about them being soft for ONE (1) emotionally unavailable woman in fiction. thereās a difference. (*cough AARON WARNERāagain)
also can we talk about the āØMELTDOWNS⨠these men have when the girl theyāve been threatening with a knife to her throat suddenly gets hurt and they realize they have a heart??
like bro u had her tied with chains in chapter 3 and now ur crying because she has a scratch on her hand?
tbh idk if i love or hate itā¦
š THE DARK ROMANCE THAT ISNāT DARK, ITāS JUST ILLEGAL
and now. my 13th reason.
we need to talk about the books that pretend theyāre ādarkā but really theyāre just š©š©š© and a lawsuit waiting to happen.
if ur story involves: āteacher/student āromanceā (EXCEPT ZODIAC ACADEMY AS THE ONLY EXCEPTION) āa grown man āfalling forā a 17-year-old who acts 12 āSA played off as ātensionā (girlā¦rape is not hot, get a grip on urself) āa man being emotionally abusive and calling it ādominanceā āstalking and isolation being āprotectivenessā with no consequences
CONGRATS. THATāS NOT DARK. THATāS JUST DISTURBING.
iām not saying every dark romance needs to be morally perfect but you canāt just write trauma and never actually unpack it. not every boundary being crossed is spicy. and if the āromanceā feels more like a crime scene, youāve gone too far.
š„¹ DARK ROMANCE THAT FEEDS MY SOUL THO??? OBSESSION FUEL.
give me: ācomplicated men with violent hands and soft hearts āwomen who are unafraid, messy, morally grey THEMSELVES (WE STANDD) āunhealthy beginnings that turn into loyalty and trust and healingggg (MANIFESTING) āreal consequences. real change. real growth.
when a dark romance gives me the full arc ā the pain, the slow burn š„ , the internal conflict, the oh my god do i deserve love??? monologue ā iām OBSESSED. cuz we LOVE A BROKEN MANNN. (*cough AARON WARNERāagain)
like YES KING. FEEL SHAME. NOW GO BE SOFT. I LOVE GOLDEN RETRIEVER ENERGY SM. ā„ļø
š STOP CALLING IT āALPHAā WHEN ITāS JUST ANGER ISSUES
iām so tired of the ādominant alpha maleā being code for raging narcissist who canāt communicate and punches walls like BROV, ARE U GOOD, DO I NEED TO BOOK U A THERAPIST TO HELP U FIND A DIFFERENT COPING MECHANISM??? what happened to tension without making the love interest a villain for no reason?
we need more dark roms mmcās who know how to ask āis this okay?ā BECAUSE CONSENT IS HOTTTT š„µ
we need less āiāll punish you for breathingā and more āiām obsessed with the way you exist and it terrifies meā (*cough AARON WARNER-AGAIN)
like iām not asking to rewrite the whole character. i still want the morally unwell men. i just want them written by authors who understand that power should feel hot ā not predatory.
and totally not judging u if u donāt agree with all these points because sometimes i gotta admit i luv my tortured mafia kings, ā but only if theyāre written with depth. with nuance. with humanity. (STILL CANāT BEAT AARON WARNER ANDERSON CHIEF COMMANDER AND REGENT OF SECTOR 45, SON OF THE SUPREMEME COMMANDER OF NORTH AMERICA THO)
and if they beg on their knees? even better š
if u have a rec that made u feel feral, unwell, and morally compromised, drop it. iām ready to spiral again.
#DarkRomanceRecsPlsss #KissMeOrKillMeIDontCare #BurnItAllDownForMeDaddy #PageboundConfessions #iloveaaronwarnerandersonchiefcommanderandregentofsector45sonofthesupremecommanderofthereestablishment
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
What are your favorites books with a "friends to lovers" vibe? I'm tired of seeing the same "enemies to lovers" popular books that are not even proper enemies to lovers, barely rivals/dude I fancy but pretend I don't to lovers.
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
It's so funny. I've not been reading for the past few days but I still come to PageBound because I love seeing the discussions going on. The new updates are so cute. The community is amazing. Hopefully I will get back into it when I go home. That said, I'M LEAVING LONDON. I'm so happy. The past year has been so harsh on me and I can honestly say that I'm not made for london. Yesterday I had to travel 4.5 hours for 15 KM!!! Because of the strike. But even then it usually it takes 2 hours. Which is insane because in my country or any sane country, you can travel 45 km in 2 hours. WITH TRAFFIC.
I've packed up most of my stuff. I'm leaving behind quite a few things. The others I'm giving off to charity or my roommate. And once I go home I'm adopting a kitten! The plan is already in motion. Here are the names I've brainstormed for her!
Bathsheba Aka Sheba Cleopatra or Cleo for short Buttercup or Butter for short And. Jam. Nothing else.
I'm leaning towards Jam. But my mother likes Sheba. What do you think!
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
whats your preference? i was just having a convo with a coworker about hardcovers vs paperback and our opinions differed quite a bit! personally, iām a paperback girl.
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It's so funny. I've not been reading for the past few days but I still come to PageBound because I love seeing the discussions going on. The new updates are so cute. The community is amazing. Hopefully I will get back into it when I go home. That said, I'M LEAVING LONDON. I'm so happy. The past year has been so harsh on me and I can honestly say that I'm not made for london. Yesterday I had to travel 4.5 hours for 15 KM!!! Because of the strike. But even then it usually it takes 2 hours. Which is insane because in my country or any sane country, you can travel 45 km in 2 hours. WITH TRAFFIC.
I've packed up most of my stuff. I'm leaving behind quite a few things. The others I'm giving off to charity or my roommate. And once I go home I'm adopting a kitten! The plan is already in motion. Here are the names I've brainstormed for her!
Bathsheba Aka Sheba Cleopatra or Cleo for short Buttercup or Butter for short And. Jam. Nothing else.
I'm leaning towards Jam. But my mother likes Sheba. What do you think!
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Founder Announcements forum
Hi everyone, a quick announcement about Seasonal + Special Event Readalongs:
For those of you that have been around since the summer, you may have participated in our first Special Event Readalong for Pride. This was a huge hit and fostered PB-wide discussion on queer characters and stories (and bonus: the badge was rad). To continue fostering discussions on more niche and diverse books & voices, we'll be hosting a Special Event readalong once a season.
Our second Special Event will run from October 15 - November 15 and will be (drumroll please...) Dia de los Muertos 2025! Head to the Discuss tab and click on the box above the feeds to check out the selections and see the new badge (and if you're new, click the purple info icon next to the Fall Readalong header on Discuss to learn more about readalongs on Pagebound).
Since we're committing to one Special Event a season, we don't want to overwhelm folks with too many Readalong books. While you only need to read 1 book in a Special Event to earn the badge (and there is no "completionist" sparkly badge), we will limit Special Event picks to 3 books. Starting with the Winter 2025 Readalong, Seasonal Readalongs will only include 4 books. This way, you still only have to read a max total of 5 books per season to earn all Readalong badges available.
As for product updates, looks like most of you have already noticed some of the bigger changes on the site but for those that missed it, the following has been updated over the past 2 weeks:
We're still beta testing the app but are on track for and end of month release!
Happy Reading, Jennifer & Lucy
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
I love putting bookish videos on in the background while I do chores. Who are your favorites? Bonus points if they are underrated gems. I watch a lot of the popular ones and would love to branch out and find more in my niche.
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
And why? Ridiculous answers are also encouraged.
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Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
I've been thinking about this because there are so many posts about The Spellshop right now, and honestly⦠I identify with Kiela so, so much. I feel her in my heart!!
Introverted, book-loving queen - someone who would always rather spend time with her stories than with people. The way she clings to books, the way she just wants to be left alone (but still kind of craves community) ... feels so much like me. A lot of her quotes were almost painfully relatable, like they came straight out of my own head.
So now I'm wondering: who are your characters that feel like you? The ones where you read them and think, "Oh no, that's me"?
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
So there's this book that I read last year called The School For Good Mothers and I really want to encourage people to read this book! It's almost set in a dystopian world where people send "bad mothers" to rehab and teach them how to be a "good mother" by putting them through rigorous training with lifelike robots. They're taught to speak in a kiddish manner and be excited and are taught to maintain eye contact.
Our protagonist is sent to this school because she left her child alone for two hours! (2 hours. How dare she?!) And her two year old child is sent to therapy. This book is such a good commentary and on the level of pressure that is put on mothers to be a good mom and how culturally a good mother can look so different. I highly encourage people to read this book!
https://pagebound.co/books/401565cc-86c5-4863-bcfa-7b7fcd0f2b76
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
Hi all, wanted to give you guys a heads up without sending everyone a notification in Founder Announcements š
Thanks all, Jennifer
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So there's this book that I read last year called The School For Good Mothers and I really want to encourage people to read this book! It's almost set in a dystopian world where people send "bad mothers" to rehab and teach them how to be a "good mother" by putting them through rigorous training with lifelike robots. They're taught to speak in a kiddish manner and be excited and are taught to maintain eye contact.
Our protagonist is sent to this school because she left her child alone for two hours! (2 hours. How dare she?!) And her two year old child is sent to therapy. This book is such a good commentary and on the level of pressure that is put on mothers to be a good mom and how culturally a good mother can look so different. I highly encourage people to read this book!
https://pagebound.co/books/401565cc-86c5-4863-bcfa-7b7fcd0f2b76
Bluehairedboy DNF'd a book
The Town of Perpetual Autumn
Beatrice Pobre
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
Iām looking for books like the House of Salt and Sorrow, The Rose Bargain, etc
Itās like a fairy tale + historical fiction combined? With magic and wonders? I wanna read more books similar or like that and I was hoping anyone had a good idea of what Iām talking about and had some recs!
Bluehairedboy wants to read...
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
Bessel van der Kolk
Bluehairedboy commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
I'm nothing if not someone who spreads propoganda about my favourite books. So without further adieu... I will try to convince you to read SOME of my favourite books using my favourite quotes from the books. Since I don't want to unnecessarily spoil anyone, I've placed the quotes under spoiler tags. None of the quotes give away anything about the core plot and plot twists (I promise) but better to be safe than sorry haha.
He shakes his head. āI was ready to fight for us,ā he says. āBut you just let me go. The funny thing is, I loved you because you were brilliant and tough and I knew that one day you were probably going to be a senator or something because you set your mind and heart on everything you wanted to do. I loved your ambition and drive. I loved how you never backed down from anything, and I thought that would extend to me too. I believed it, all the way to the end.ā
āI know. If I could go back in time and do it again, I wouldāve chosen differently. I wouldāve put on my shoes and walked out the door. I wouldāve gone to your house for prom, spent time with your mom. Had dinner. Taken pictures. Tried to make her like me. I wouldāve gone to prom with you. I wouldāve held your hand, brought you home, introduced you to Mama instead of hiding you. I wish I couldāve.ā