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    The comparisons are like Bridget Jones or a Sally Rooney novel, but trans, and I think that’s sort of fair? It lives in that genre of dissecting women's relationships, it is equally funny and poignant. But I would add that this book is more than that because it so deeply lives in the complicated world of being trans in ways that doesn’t patronise the reader with “intro to queerdom” bits of exposition, or stereotypes that dilute experiences to make them palatable. It’s not Bridget jones but make it queer, it’s queer, but make it Bridget jones.

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    Now go read Julia

    Even if you thought this book was kinda mid (which I did tbh) reading julia by Sandra Newman afterwards was incredible and made me think more fondly about the original tbh

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    Now go read Julia

    Even if you thought this book was kinda mid (which I did tbh) reading julia by Sandra Newman afterwards was incredible and made me think more fondly about the original tbh

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    A History of Women in 101 Objects

    A History of Women in 101 Objects

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    Chefboibex's 2025 Reading Challenge

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    Chlorine
    1984
    Uzumaki
    Crying in H Mart
    Bellies
    Julia
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    The comparisons are like Bridget Jones or a Sally Rooney novel, but trans, and I think that’s sort of fair? It lives in that genre of dissecting women's relationships, it is equally funny and poignant. But I would add that this book is more than that because it so deeply lives in the complicated world of being trans in ways that doesn’t patronise the reader with “intro to queerdom” bits of exposition, or stereotypes that dilute experiences to make them palatable. It’s not Bridget jones but make it queer, it’s queer, but make it Bridget jones.

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    Reading lolita in my thirties

    Decided to give the book another go after listening to Jamie Loftus’ podcast, I had read the book as a teenager deep in my tumblr phase, and had come away confused: why didn’t I like the narrator, why didn’t I find it very romantic or erotic? Reader, I was never supposed to. Understanding Delores Hayes as a fully grown adult is a very different experience, and I think this is like many other pieces of media that are brilliant, but a once only experience (like Grave of the Fireflies, maybe)

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