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SarahBess

26 | she/they Just as likely to be found reading litfic as romance, speculative, or nonfic. I love genre-bending, voice-driven stories holding a mirror up to society! I am an easy rater though 😅

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We've Been Here the Whole Time!: A Not So Sacred Guide to All Things Native America
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  • Oct 20, 2026
    Mother Tongue: A Memoir
    Mother Tongue: A MemoirSara Nović
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    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 5.0Characters: Plot: Audiobook: 5.0
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    I read Sara Novic's book True Biz a few years back and one of my favorite parts of it were the inserted chapters about the history of deaf culture. So when I saw that her memoir Mother Tongue was shortlisted for the Nonfiction National Book Award I was immediately intrigued.

    I was not disappointed. Novic seamlessly weaves the history of the systemic injustice and language deprivation that deaf people have faced for centuries into her personal journey of accepting her own deafness and becoming a mother to her two children.

    This is easily one of the most comprehensive memoirs I've read this year-- you follow the story starting at Novic's experience navigating education without accommodations, her experience as a deaf pregnant person and mother to a hearing child, and the process their family went through when adopting their deaf son from Thailand during the pandemic. Also touched on are the history of oralists trying to eradicate sign language and deaf culture, police violence against deaf people (and how that especially affects the intersection of Black and Deaf identities), the intersection of Deaf and queer cultures, and the deeply ableist standards that hearing parents and society hold deaf children to.

    Listing it all out like that, it might sound overwhelming but the narrative is crafted so seamlessly you will not notice how much information you're learning until you sit back at the end, or at least that was my experience.

    You might notice I also rated the audiobook 5 stars and I know it might seem strange to listen to a book that is largely about deafness but I do think that Lisa Flanagan's narration and the production (specifically the use of sound underlaying the signed dialogue) was exceptionally well done. I did a tandem read with audio and ebook and would recommend it if it's an option!

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  • Favorite Indie Bookstores?

    Hey everyone! I’ve been on a bit of a Connecticut indie bookstore kick lately and would love to hear about your favorites—anywhere, not just CT!

    Here’s some of my favorites I’ve been to:

    • The Golden Owl in New London – Honorable mention since I didn't buy anything, but the owners were super nice and they have some really creative events and quirks for regulars—like designated mugs for each regular at their cafe. Made me wish I lived in New London! 😅 • Some Books in Ridgefield – Super tiny, highly curated used bookstore that opened last October if I remember. I went in with no expectations and walked out with TWO five-star reads. It’s proof that newer small shops can have killer selections. • Possible Futures in New Haven – Awesome spot with a great community vibe—couches, tons to browse, and lots of events if you're local. I grabbed a short story anthology based on a bookseller's rec and absolutely loved it. Staff who actually know their stuff. • Book Barn in Niantic – Took a drive out west for this one (it's where I sell my old books if I don't want to keep them). It's so sprawling, huge selection, always fun to browse. The decorations are so fun and book themed and you can find some great things for cheap! • Black Rock Books in Mystic – This one really stood out. Such a cool store! They had a free little queer library for ARCs and donations, plus a free blind date with a book setup (again with ARCs). Their selection was impressively wide—I ended up buying a translated book for myself, a board book for my cousin’s kid, and snagged 3 free queer ARCs for books that came out earlier this year (one was already on my radar, so there was some major excitement there).

    Everything but the Book Barn was on the Connecticut Indie Bookstore Passport, which is how I found them!

    So tell me: What are your favorite indie bookstores? Any spots with awesome staff recs, free ARC tables, or quirky setups? I would love to expand my road trip list lol!

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    SarahBess commented...

    Jane Austen's Bookshelf by Rebecca Romney (!!!) Why We Love (and Hate) Twilight by Sarah Elizabeth Gallagher The Address Book by Deidre Mask (!!!) MCU: The Reign of Marvel Studios Words on the Move by John McWhorter Wordslut by Amanda Montell (I can't remember if this is already on the list) Comic Shop by Dan Gearino Behind the Mirror by Taren Armstrong (!!!) The Other Olympians by Michael Waters (!!!) Because Internet by Gretchen McCullough Butts: A Backstory by Heather Radke (!!!) Fire Weather by John Vaillant (!!!) Lesbian Love Story by Amelia Possanza

    I put the !!! on my absolute favorites but I really think all of these if this quest so well

  • New Rabbit Hole Suggestions 🐰

    I can’t believe it’s finally here! Nonfiction has always been one of my favorite genres because you can learn so much about so many topics - there are truly a never ending number of rabbit holes to fall down 😉

    With this quest I tried to cast as wide a net as possible from my original list, but given the100 book cap I wanted to also leave space for future publications. If you come across any newly released and interesting works in your reading journey, feel free to drop them below. Even if I’m unable to add them to the quest, it’s still a great way to share new recommendations with your fellow readers!

    Thank you all for going on this journey with me. Happy reading, I hope you learn something fascinating! 🩵

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