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María’s story is so captivating that it’s hard for me to care when it switches to Alice’s POV. It reminds me of A Dowry of Blood by S.T. Gibson, which I quite enjoyed. Alice’s story is less interesting to me at the moment, but I understand this is, of course, all currently exposition. Despite not being as invested in Alice, I know this all has to connect somehow and it just makes me want to read more! I’ve only read one of Schwab’s other works, Addie LaRue, and the prose is just as lovely and effortless. It might feel like a slow build, but it’s not a slog to read at all. I can’t wait to see what the payoff will be like.
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At the beginning of this memoir I was not liking the overly dramatic and romantic speech but I have to say I've ended up enjoying it a lot more than I thought. Enjoying may not be the right word for it. There's a lot of trauma in this book and though I know and understand that some people are in a place where it can be harmful to be exposed to it I think sometimes getting uncomfortable it's a good thing. In this case I appreciate how she doesn't delve on the traumatic experiences but rather narrates them as they happened, with the detachment we often feel when we're going through them and yet she doesn't minimize how horrific they were. I identify with this so much and I get that getting to a point where you can do that it's so hard and takes so much time and work and pain.
Very little is spoken about sex work in general, let alone from a sex worker's perspective and even less about SA, specially childhood SA and sex work and just how easy is the jump from one to the other. I wish there would be so much more open talk about this because the guilt, the shame and the sense of worthlessness can really make you think you're wrong somehow and isolated, but you're not, we're not, there are too many of us actually and I think through community and openness and vulnerable talk on the subject could make real change for other survivors.
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Jim saying he's rich now for he owns himself and he's worth $800. This is making me cry right now.
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Hi memoir-enjoying friends!
Thinking about memoirs and what a large variety there are, I wonder what makes one person think "hey, I should write one" and another "yes, I would sell that" and a third "wow, I'd love to read this." I'm sure on the publishing side there is surely a consideration of marketability based on the author's celebrity or how unique the story is or how relevant it is to the time, but I wonder on the reader side, do you think every story is worth telling? Do you expect the author of a memoir to have some qualifications besides their lived experience? If you're more familiar with the memoir space than I am, do you get irked seeing some types of memoirs pop up that you think are more vanity pieces than actually worthwhile? Is there anything that makes you think "that person should absolutely/not write a memoir?"
Excited to hear what you think!
Post from the Initiated: Memoir of a Witch forum
"When we’re unstable or traumatized, we might not see the opportunities that magic presents us with; our expectations and patterns can blind us."
ok girl you didn't have to do me like that... No, but seriously this is so important to understand during practice, is not that we need to be in an specific headspace every time, but we do need to continuously check within ourselves for our biases and patterns.