kneebones commented on greenyuri's review of At 30, I Realized I Had No Gender
Similar to other reviewers, this was manga was not fully what I was expecting based on the title and summary. It works more as what seems to be a mid-life update and Q&A within Shou Arai's life and gender journey. However I quickly found myself stable within the pacing of the book and loved learning more about Arai's life and experiences. Honestly I found many of the author takes refreshing and holding true to a more androgynous perspective on life. Whatever makes you happy and most comfortable with yourself, within society, and around loved ones/peers is how you should best navigate your life. This is note a full autobiography in similar vein to My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness by Nagata Kabi, but rather more similar to her later volumes that have an established rapport with the audience and confident tone of voice. While Arai talks about the insecurities and doubts that can plague an intersex nonbinary gay man, he also is very succinct in his openness and vulnerabilities. I can also see a huge advantage of this manga being heavily influenced and in conversation with his partner/boyfriend. He does not shy away from discussing gender orientation versus presentation, gender dysphoria versus euphoria, sexual orientation versus preferences (with some honestly innovative phrasing), how to navigate gender expression and queerness in the Japanese language itself, and so much more!! I do have some gripes with the paneling/flow of this manga a little bit, along with the art style making it confusing to always understand who was talking or being discussed. However, I can only really let that gripe affect a half star in the grand scheme of things. I do truly think it's a landmark text for intersex/trans/queer people. Learning more about each other's experiences, whether shared or not, can only strengthen our bonds, knowledge, and understanding of one another.
I need to get a physical copy of this book ASAP and have so many friends I want to recommend and gift this to!
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