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The Outermost House: A Year of Life On The Great Beach of Cape Cod
Henry Beston
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Within a Budding Grove (In Search of Lost Time, #2)
Marcel Proust
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A year in the life of a woman grieving the death of her husband: more of an emotional progression than a chronological timeline. The memoir has both very expansive and microscopic details of grief.
Good stuff: clear prose, sadness without maudlin sentimentality, and a remarkable portrait of the circular, spiraling processes of grief. For me it was also a huge positive that the author did not spend time discussing a higher power in her journey, which I think adds to the universality of the book.
Not as good: Didion's life is one of great privilege, and although I am not sure it would do much good for her to have acknowledged it, it seemed to me that her grieving in this book is so pure because she is untroubled by isolation, family tension, medical negligence, or any financial burden whatsoever. I found it really depressing how easy her money and connections made the logistical parts of medical care so straightforward for her. I would hesitate to recommend this book to anyone whose losses have been compounded by these other typical stressors.
I found the book to be a simple read and I didn't find a lot of new perspective or language offered until the final five chapters or so; these I found much more incisive and interesting. I would cautiously recommend this to someone experiencing a similar loss to Didion's, as long as they don't mind reading in the context of a woman of means.
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The Year of Magical Thinking
Joan Didion
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Delta of Venus
Anaïs Nin
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"I had myself for most of my life shared the same core belief in my ability to control events. If my mother was suddenly hospitalized in Tunis I could arrange for the American consul to bring her English-language newspapers and get her onto an Air France flight to meet my brother in Paris. If Quintana were suddenly stranded in the Nice airport I could arrange with somebody from British Airways to get her on a BA flight to meet her cousin in London..."
Didion's grief is real but holy heck the breadth of privilege she shows even in her dark hours is making her very difficult for me to identify with.
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What Am I, A Deer?
Polly Barton
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This is my first time reading Joan Didion and so far what strikes me is for how many memories she mentions at least one article of clothing that she (or John) was wearing.
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The Year of Magical Thinking
Joan Didion
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Another Bullshit Night in Suck City
Nick Flynn
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The Outermost House: A Year of Life On The Great Beach of Cape Cod
Henry Beston
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Another Bullshit Night in Suck City
Nick Flynn
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Another Bullshit Night in Suck City
Nick Flynn
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The Incandescent
Emily Tesh
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Love is a Dangerous Word: the Selected Poems of Essex Hemphill
Essex Hemphill
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Love is a Dangerous Word: the Selected Poems of Essex Hemphill
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