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pancakesfortea

she/they ✨️ 18 children's fantasy > adult fantasy 🥰 Living on stolen Boon Wurrung land 🌱

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Sapphic Across Genres
Found Family in Fantasy
Games & Trials
My Taste
Anne of Green Gables (Anne of Green Gables, #1)
Loveless
Discipline
The Extremely Inconvenient Adventures of Bronte Mettlestone
Kindred
Reading...
Four Eids and a Funeral
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I’m Glad My Mom Died
93%

pancakesfortea is interested in reading...

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Sorry Not Sorry: Dreams, Mistakes, and Growing Up

Sorry Not Sorry: Dreams, Mistakes, and Growing Up

Naya Rivera

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I’m Glad My Mom Died

I’m Glad My Mom Died

Jennette McCurdy

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  • Body Grammar
    pancakesfortea
    Feb 27, 2026
    3.0
    Enjoyment: 3.0Quality: 3.0Characters: 3.5Plot: 3.0
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    I agree with the reviews saying they would have enjoyed this more at a younger age, I think it would have been way more impactful to me if I had read this book at 16 or so, but now I felt kind of disconnected from it. All the characters and plot were fine, but I think the whole modelling aspect with all the brands felt a bit weird in this world? I was hooked because of the grief plotlines but I have mixed feelings overall 🙂‍↔️ I think I may be aging out of young adult 🥲

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    I’m Glad My Mom Died

    I’m Glad My Mom Died

    Jennette McCurdy

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    Martin and Malcolm and America: A Dream or a Nightmare?

    Martin and Malcolm and America: A Dream or a Nightmare?

    James H. Cone

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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    Crimes by Indigenous people 98%

    "Many crimes committed by my people are drug and alcohol related. I don't believe these are criminal matters, they are health problems. Us mob have cultural lore that has been practised long before colonisation, and we continue to utilise it."

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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    Quote 98%

    "I am angry about the way police continue to treat my people. I am angry about the overrepresentation of my people among this country's incarcerated population. I am angry about the deaths in custody of my people, and I am furious that to date no police have ever been held accountable."

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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    Quote 92%

    "I spend half my time in the job educating others about my culture, and the other half explaining my reasons I became a sworn police officer and not a police liason officer, not to mention the shit I put up with from other officers. You either conform to become one of them and allow yourself to become apart of the racist system and their racist ideologies about your own people, or you are in a constant battle defending yourself."

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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    92% police classism

    "The way police treated people depended on which suburb they were from. If you lived in the wealthier suburbs and committed a crime, police used their discretion and gave out warnings, in direct contrast to how they treated people from the so-called 'poorer' suburbs."

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    Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience

    Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience

    Veronica Gorrie

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  • I’m Glad My Mom Died
    Thoughts from 56%

    "I yearn to know the people I love deeply and intimately, without context, without boxes, and I yearn for them to know me that way too."

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    I’m Glad My Mom Died

    I’m Glad My Mom Died

    Jennette McCurdy

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    Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience

    Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience

    Veronica Gorrie

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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    Thoughts from 78%
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  • Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience
    77% - deaths in custody

    CW: Aboriginal deaths

    "Since the Royal Comminisson into Aboriginal deaths in custody report was completed in 1991, there have been a further 437 deaths and no police have ever been made accountable."

    Whilst I don't find it surprising that we aren't loudly told this number by the government, it's so important that we all know this number. It's honestly way more than I realised before reading this book, and there are probably more deaths we don't know about

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