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One Last Stop
Casey McQuiston
For cynical twenty-three-year-old August, moving to New York City is supposed to prove her right: that things like magic and cinematic love stories donât exist, and the only smart way to go through life is alone. She canât imagine how waiting tables at a 24-hour pancake diner and moving in with too many weird roommates could possibly change that. And thereâs certainly no chance of her subway commute being anything more than a daily trudge through boredom and electrical failures. But then, thereâs this gorgeous girl on the train. Jane. Dazzling, charming, mysterious, impossible Jane. Jane with her rough edges and swoopy hair and soft smile, showing up in a leather jacket to save Augustâs day when she needed it most. Augustâs subway crush becomes the best part of her day, but pretty soon, she discovers thereâs one big problem: Jane doesnât just look like an old school punk rocker. Sheâs literally displaced in time from the 1970s, and August is going to have to use everything she tried to leave in her own past to help her. Maybe itâs time to start believing in some things, after all. Casey McQuistonâs One Last Stop is a magical, sexy, big-hearted romance where the impossible becomes possible as August does everything in her power to save the girl lost in time.








RATING (BASED ON PERSONAL SCALE): 4.00/5 â A great book Iâd happily revisit or re-read, with only tiny things keeping it from perfection. â Character impact wasnât applicable here.
MY TAKE: MY BRAIN HAS SUBTITLES, APPARENTLY đ
THOUGHTS & FEELS: Welp, I actually finished this book a while ago, but I didnât want to mark it as read until my husband finished it too. I wanted us both to get through it in case there were sections we needed to come back to and talk about together.
As someone who was recently diagnosed with AuDHD, this was recommended by our couples counselor as a way for my husband to better understand how my brain works. Because hereâs the thing, weâre actively talking, weâre speaking the same language, we love each other, and weâre in a happy marriage... but that doesnât automatically mean weâre communicating in the best possible way.
Sometimes I need something communicated differently. Sometimes I need more time to process before responding. Sometimes what someone means isnât necessarily what my brain hears. This book helped us recognize those differences without automatically assuming either person was doing something wrong.
More than anything, it helped me feel seen and better understood. It didnât just give my husband more context for how my brain processes things, it gave me language for experiences I havenât always known how to explain.
Between couples counseling, this book, and both of us actively working on our communication, I think weâve gotten much better at meeting each other where we are. And honestly, thereâs no shame in being in a happy marriage and still needing some help. Sometimes getting help is how you make something good even better.
The only thing keeping this from five stars is that AuDHD can look so different from person to person that not everything applied to me, and some of the advice works better as a starting point than a one-size-fits-all answer. This isnât an instruction manual for understanding every AuDHD person, itâs a tool for starting better conversations with the actual person you love.
BOTTOM LINE: Iâd highly recommend this to partners, family, or friends who want to better understand someone with AuDHD. For us, it wasnât about fixing our relationship, it was about understanding each other better, communicating more intentionally, and giving ourselves another language for the moments when my brain apparently needs subtitles. đ


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Loving Someone with AuDHD (Autism + ADHD): The Essential Guide for Partners, Family, and Friends
Mildred Kathryn Hardy
Your Partner Has Autism AND ADHDâAnd You're Exhausted, Confused, and Wondering If You Can Make This Work They crave plans but cancel them last minute. They're hyperfocused one moment and completely scattered the next. They need routine yet also demand novelty. One day they talk for hours; the next, they won't respond to your texts. You love them. But you're walking on eggshells, managing their meltdowns, compensating for forgotten tasks, and losing yourself in the process. The AuDHD paradox is realâand it's destroying relationships that could thrive. What You'll Discover in This Essential Understanding the Paradoxical Why your loved one seems full of contradictionsâand how the combination of autism and ADHD creates internal conflicts you can't see The Hidden How to communicate effectively when literal thinking meets impulse control challenges, and why "hints" never work Social Energy The push-pull of connection and withdrawal that leaves you feeling rejectedâand what's actually happening in their nervous system Executive Function Without Supporting time blindness, task initiation struggles, and organizational challenges without becoming their parent Emotional What to do (and NOT do) during meltdowns and shutdowns, plus understanding rejection sensitive dysphoria The Sensory World You Can't How sensory processing affects everything from intimacy to date nights to daily life Burnout Recognition and Identifying when your partner is depletedâand preventing your own caretaker burnout Fighting Conflict resolution strategies that work for different brains, not against them Building Sustainable Dividing tasks by strengths, creating structures that work for YOU, and celebrating what makes your relationship unique This Book Is Different Written specifically for partners, family members, and friendsânot the diagnosed individual Addresses the unique challenges of AUTISM + ADHD together (not separately) Includes detailed case examples showing real situations and solutions Provides scripts, templates, and practical tools you can use immediately Balances support strategies with partner self-care to prevent burnout Celebrates relationship strengths while addressing real challenges What Readers Will Why "simple requests" trigger defensive reactionsâand how to communicate needs without causing meltdowns The neurological reasons behind time blindness, forgotten commitments, and chronic lateness How to recognize early warning signs of burnout before complete shutdown occurs Specific strategies for maintaining physical and emotional intimacy despite sensory sensitivities When support crosses into enablingâand how to avoid the parent-child dynamic How to build your own support system and maintain identity outside the relationship Why both partners feel chronically misunderstoodâand how to bridg