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  • Half His Age
    crybabybea
    Jan 15, 2026
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    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 5.0Characters: 5.0Plot: 4.5
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    An acerbic, unflinching commentary on the messy, cavernous laceration of girlhood.

    Half His Age is a story about feminine rage, but not the screaming, crying, throwing dishes kind. It's the quiet aftermath. Sitting on the edge of the bathtub, staring at your mascara-streaked tear stains in the mirror as the last scrap of imagined power drains out of you, feeling hollow and slightly humiliated as you settle into the realization that you're trapped in a cycle that you can't quite name.

    It's a story about agency, and lack thereof. How systems and cycles outside of our control force us into survival, force us into clawing for anything that brings relief, anything that we can latch onto for control, anything to satiate the empty feeling we don't want to address. Even when we know it's not good for us, we cling to it anyway.

    It's a brutally realistic portrayal of a girl parentified, who learned early on that being chosen and being loved meant self-abandonment, meant playing a role, meant picking up the pieces of everyone around her even if it meant falling apart.

    Each chapter is told like a snapshot memory, focusing in on a single detail as it zooms out to capture the scene in its entirety. McCurdy's writing is raw and full of a clarity that demands rapt attention. The short chapters mean that every word matters, every symbol is packed with meaning, every moment is layered with threads begging to be unraveled.

    The narrative centers entirely on Waldo's inner monologue to a claustrophobic degree. Her inner state seesaws between numb cynicism and frantic, all-consuming anxiety. Many of her thoughts are twisted reflections of the harsh lessons learned through parentification, through cultural conditioning and societal expectation. In every moment, Waldo's emotional state is almost unbearably palpable. She's unreliable but legible, impulsive but empathetic.

    Your eyes want to look away, to spare her from having witnesses to her dysfunction, but behind it is a low-grade hum of resignation as you feel the inevitability coming toward you in every choice she makes. Yet your heart wants to keep watching, propelled forward by clinging to the tiniest shred of hope that she might hit a wall, wake up, and escape the cycle. Because if Waldo can escape the cycle, it might mean that you can, too.

    Threaded through Waldo's experience are McCurdy's ruminations on systems that tear away the agency of women and girls. Capitalism that forces us into competition, consumerism that sells us products to fix issues invented by the market, patriarchy that teaches us that being chosen by a man is the ultimate form of salvation. That if we look and act just so, and buy the right products to get us there, and consume the right content that makes us one nudge better than the girls around us, we might get lucky enough to be chosen, to mean something, to matter.

    It examines the idea of desire from a feminine perspective, its imposed limitations and expectations. The false sense of agency that women are given by performing sexuality, because it's the only place their needs and desires can be contained without being minimized, ridiculed, or dismissed.

    Deeply uncomfortable, intentional, and wrapped in rough edges and messy choices that don't ask for forgiveness, just a witness.

    I received an ALC of this title in exchange for an honest review.

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    This book is absolutely so cozy!! I don’t usually read non-fiction, but was super excited to read this one! I am already loving just how joyful the author is; it feels like a breath of fresh air

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    ”Eating with the seasons is a way of honoring abundance. By going to meet it when and where it arrives. A world of produce houses and grocery stores enables the practice of having what you want and when you want it”

    My mom once said to me, "I only eat food that comes from the store, not from the ground." When the shock subsided and I could finally form words again, I asked, genuinely curious, where she thought the food from the store came from. She told me that she knows it comes from the ground but she doesn't have to see it so it's different. Different in the same way that people couldn't fathom killing a cow but would happily eat a burger. (I'm not judging, nor am I absolved of the hypocrisy - I eat fish). But the point is we are so far removed from reality that we could never even fathom not having our favorite foods available every single day of the year. And yet there is still such a terrible scarcity mindset. "If I don't buy it now, if I don't have it now, I may never get the opportunity to again!" This way of life carries over into every aspect of our lives and creates an atmosphere of constantly living for the future rather than living for what we currently have.

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    I just started the audiobook, which is read by the author, and I find it really lovely that you can hear her turning the pages while she reads. There's just something so cozy about it to me. Like being read a bedtime story.

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  • The Serviceberry: Abundance and Reciprocity in the Natural World
    🎧Thoughts from 4% | Anecdote on Shopping Locally

    "Eating with the seasons is a way of honouring the abundance by going to meet it when and where it arrives. A world of produce warehouses and grocery stores enables the practice of having what you want when you want it. We force the food to come to us, at considerable financial and ecological costs, rather than following the practice of taking what has been given to us each in its own time."

    Here's a little personal share in reference to this paragraph. A couple of years ago, my husband and I made the choice to only shop at locally owned and operated businesses for anything we needed for an entire year. No chains, no franchises, no big businesses!

    Not only did it help us foster relationships with more people in our small community, taste the best family recipes, financially support the goods and service providers to do real things such as send their kids to hockey practice or music lessons, etc, but it also completely flipped how we ate with the seasons.

    Where I live is very lush with stonefruits and grapes so in the summertime it was so easy to just grocery shop at fruit stands on the side of the road or farmers markets. But in the winter, all the food we had gotten so accustomed to eating year-round became unobtainable. The effort for us to conform our recipes to seasonal products was so minimal and we found new ingredients that we still use today that we hadn't tried as frequently before!

    The moral of the story is that it's a lot easier for us (in our circumstance) to eat seasonal foods than it normally takes out-of-season foods to make their way to us!

    Final note, I do want to acknowledge that not everyone has this privilege and that we just happened to be in the financial position at the time to afford this lifestyle. Big businesses constantly out-price local businesses and can sell pretty much anything cheaper, which makes shopping exclusively local (in my area) more expensive than using supermarkets. If you find yourself in a stable financial position to do the same, I strongly implore you to try it out and see how it benefits you and your local community 🖤

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    Mute Book Option

    When reviewing a book that you've read, I wish there was a toggle somewhere in the review section on whether or not you wanted to mute the book. Some of the books I've read I have no desire to discuss or see others updates on--I just want a little toggle, instead of going through one by one on the and muting them when they pop up on my feed. OR! Could there be some kind of option where you could mute multiple books at a time on the "books read" section? Just a little toggle, lol.

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    Out of all the horrors happening in Nickelodeon, I’m glad there was one good thing that happened and that is Jeanette finding a friendship with Miranda. Her mom warped her perspective of female friendships with misogynistic stereotypes; women are backstabby, jealous and competitive. But at the very least, there was one person Jeanette could trust and rely on.

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