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displacedcactus commented on beezus's review of Hijab Butch Blues
i don't really have much to say besides everyone needs to read this now. drop what you're doing and pick it up. no, you don't need to read stone butch blues first. put it down, read it after. read this first. read it now!!
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displacedcactus commented on displacedcactus's review of Soil: The Story of a Black Mother's Garden
I'm not giving this book a star rating because the thing is, it is a good book, but it was not a good book for me. I was the wrong reader for this book due to being a childfree atheist, and once the author had put me off with some attitude about people without kids and multiple chapters about church, it was hard for me to enjoy the rest of the book.
Which is a shame, because I otherwise really like what she's done here. The garden serves as something of a motif to tie together writing about race, history, the western United States, botany, academia, and writing itself. Because I knew from other reviews going in that this wasn't purely a Plant Book, and because I enjoy memoirs, I was prepared to go along for the ride.
There are still things I really like about this book. I especially like Dungy's relationship with her husband Ray. It feels so loving but realistic. Sometimes they annoy each other, but it's impossible to live as yourself with someone and never annoy each other.
If a story about the author having a disagreement with her pastor and pulling her six-year-old out of the church and thus away from the best friend won't cause you to revisit your own childhood church trauma, and if being called "childless" won't feel like a slap in the face, definitely give it a go. Otherwise, there are many other great memoirs in the world to check out.
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Build a house!
Being able to build a home is a rare thing these days, so let's build our own imaginary house book by book! Feel free to suggest a title for a home improvement 🛠
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Post from the Soil: The Story of a Black Mother's Garden forum
I want to give a shout-out for a section I listened to during a long drive on Saturday, so I don't know the percentage... but the author talks about visiting a park because she likes a certain ranger there, a charming Black man who reminds her of her husband, and how welcome he made her, a Black woman, feel. She describes her feeling towards him as a "mind crush" and as being like visiting where a flower grows, without wanting to cut it and take it home. As a demisexual person, I absolutely loved that analogy! There are people in the world who give me warm, fuzzy feelings, who are easy on the eyes and fun to be around, and it's so nice to just... not feel like it has to be anything else.
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I'm not giving this book a star rating because the thing is, it is a good book, but it was not a good book for me. I was the wrong reader for this book due to being a childfree atheist, and once the author had put me off with some attitude about people without kids and multiple chapters about church, it was hard for me to enjoy the rest of the book.
Which is a shame, because I otherwise really like what she's done here. The garden serves as something of a motif to tie together writing about race, history, the western United States, botany, academia, and writing itself. Because I knew from other reviews going in that this wasn't purely a Plant Book, and because I enjoy memoirs, I was prepared to go along for the ride.
There are still things I really like about this book. I especially like Dungy's relationship with her husband Ray. It feels so loving but realistic. Sometimes they annoy each other, but it's impossible to live as yourself with someone and never annoy each other.
If a story about the author having a disagreement with her pastor and pulling her six-year-old out of the church and thus away from the best friend won't cause you to revisit your own childhood church trauma, and if being called "childless" won't feel like a slap in the face, definitely give it a go. Otherwise, there are many other great memoirs in the world to check out.
displacedcactus commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
Has anyone else been using social media a lot less since joining Pagebound?
I find myself so bored now scrolling through typical social media apps. Reading all your comments, reviews and forum posts is so much more brain stimulating! It’s great knowing time spent on my phone is not wasted 👌🏼
It’s so nice having this community who love reading as much as each other and are all so supportive and insightful 🫶🏼
displacedcactus commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
not to spread hate, just to check if anyone is as bothered as me i enjoy lists a lot and ‘today's featured emoji’ section in particular. i noticed that several lists are there almost every day. it looks like the lists have one emoji changed daily to match the featured emoji regardless of whether or not it suits the theme of the list. as of now 4 out of 9 featured lists are like that (i’ve memorized them unfortunately) those could be awesome lists with the purpose behind them, but the situation still rubs me the wrong way. your thoughts?
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Children of Owl
Darcie Little Badger
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The Fly Trap
Fredrik Sjöberg
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Hemlock
Melissa Faliveno
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It's Great to Suck at Something: The Unexpected Joy of Wiping Out and What It Can Teach Us About Patience, Resilience, and the Stuff that Really Matters
Karen Rinaldi
displacedcactus commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
I had to go back into mine and update a few days where I read but forgot to log, and that brought my streak up to 59! I love how the colour of the flame changes as you log more days!
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Post from the Soil: The Story of a Black Mother's Garden forum
Pronghorns don't get ready, they stay ready!
I love that these creatures outlived the predators they evolved to outrun, and then they just never lost their super speed.