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She/her đŸłïžâ€đŸŒˆ Elder Millennial đŸ‘”Niche Non-fiction Enthusiast I live in Edmonds, WA with my spouse and our corgi. When not reading, I love to craft, dance, and try new food and drinks.

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Found Family in Fantasy
Queer Horror
Plants, fungi, and trees - oh my!
Sapphic Across Genres
Majestic Minibeasts
Spring 2026 Readalong
My Taste
The Transitive Properties of Cheese
Of Time and Turtles: Mending the World, Shell by Shattered Shell
Hijab Butch Blues
Cosmic Love at the Multiverse Hair Salon
A Memory Called Empire (Teixcalaan, #1)
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Sentient: What Animals Reveal About Our Senses
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Geisha, a Life
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The Lamb Will Slaughter the Lion (Danielle Cain, #1)
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A Year of Garden Bees & Bugs: 52 Stories of Intriguing Insects
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Never Home Alone: From Microbes to Millipedes, Camel Crickets, and Honeybees, the Natural History of Where We Live
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  • Empire of AI: Dreams and Nightmares in Sam Altman's OpenAI
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    Oh of course these tech bros started it as a not-for-profit. I don’t think these guys know what “good” is. I don’t think the first sign that open AI was not altruistic was Musk leaving. The sign was his involvement. đŸ«  I might have to rein in my comments on this book because I can tell it’s gonna make me maaaaaad 😅

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    Heyo! This is just a random question, but do you guys have any "rules" for following people here (for example people with a great taste overlap with you or people you know from other apps/irl)? Since PB is not algorithm based I follow everyone who pops up on my feed but sometimes I see them posting some books that make me question if I should be more picky with the follow button 😂

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  • The Minions in Me: An Erotic Short Story
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  • Sentient: What Animals Reveal About Our Senses
    Thoughts from 61% (page 194)

    Counterintuitively, he plans to treat people with chronic dizziness by getting them up on the dance floor.

    This isn't counterintuitive at all! If this author had spoken to one (1) movement artist, she would have found out that not only is dance great for balance and proprioception, but that it's really, really common for senior citizens to be recommended to do things like dance/barre-inspired workouts, yoga, and tai chi to maintain/improve their balance and reduce fall risks.

    Someone should buy me a drink and listen to me rant about this chapter in specific and this book in general.

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  • Sentient: What Animals Reveal About Our Senses
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    This winning, if lethal, combination is made possible by a sense so underappreciated that to most, it remains wholly secret.

    Ok, I'll admit that as a dancer and someone who has done yoga to support my dance health, I'm not the average person in terms of body awareness... but I'm pretty sure we're all aware that we have a sense of balance! Even if you don't know how the sense works, you're familiar with getting dizzy from spinning around or getting drunk or something. Whomst amongst us has literally never wobbled???

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  • A Lady for All Seasons: A Novel
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    Enjoyment: 5.0Quality: 4.0Characters: 5.0Plot: 3.0
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    Love triangles are annoying, unless the love triangle is between a gal and two people who are actually, surprise, the same person! Throw in a marriage of convenience, a whole bunch of queer pining, and Lord Byron constantly inserting himself into things, and you have this book.

    What I really enjoy about this book and the other half of the duology (A Gentleman's Gentleman) is that there's a real sense of fun and queer joy. Yes, there's a certain amount of well-deserved angst over living in a place and time where you can't just be yourself and marry and love who you will, but our characters still manage to get up to some hijinks, experience gender euphoria, and of course, get frisky.

    That said, this book is more of a slow-burn, with only one spicy scene near the end.

    I want to especially highlight that this book might appeal to folks who read Emma and wished it was gayer. Verbena shows a similar tendency to meddle and match-make, although she has a bit more of an edge to her which I think makes her a more interesting character.

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  • Geisha, a Life
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    The more I read of this book the more I realize that it is a fucking tragedy. Mineko tells these stories so nonchalantly and tries to play everything off so positively (like, 'this ended up being funny!' or 'this ultimately made me stronger') but there have been more than a few that have horrified me. I was planning to elaborate more in this comment but honestly, it's too sad and I don't want to list everything out. I understand that working as a geiko is probably the most affluent life she could have had for a girl of her station, and maybe she did end up happier than she would have been elsewhere, but she went through too much, saw too much, and it is getting more and more difficult to read her casual retellings of these major life traumas.

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  • Geisha, a Life
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    Mar 19, 2026
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    Enjoyment: 3.0Quality: 3.5Characters: Plot:
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    Very middle of the road memoir for me.

    Geisha, a Life is powerful simply by the fact of its existence. Having Iwasaki's recollection of her time in Gion Kobu is priceless due to the dearth of accurate, first-person information about geisha culture available in the West, and of course as a testimony against the misuse of her story by Memoirs of a Geisha.

    The book's strength lies in its detail. It's enthralling to hear about the nuances of geisha culture, and very fitting that a woman whose profession fixated on extreme detail would use that same complexity when recalling her memories. Every inclusion feels intentional and deserved, and Iwasaki doesn't tend to meander.

    Especially, I enjoyed exploring the precarious position geisha culture served in Japan at the time. Simultaneously a way for young girls and women to gain a modicum of power and economic freedom, a profession that offered more respect for women than they might receive as a housewife or mother, but simultaneously extremely limited in its prospects and opportunities except for the few who dedicate their body and lives at the expense of their well-being (as exemplified by Iwasaki).

    While its grounded detail is its strength, Geisha, a Life often keeps the reader at arms-length, with a noticeable lack of emotion, moving on from hard situations in ways that often felt contrived. While this does make sense as a cultural difference, I struggled to connect with Iwasaki on a deeper level because of it.

    As well, Iwasaki's perspective is understandably limited, being the most famous geiko of her time. This resulted in a bit of an idyllic picture being painted, even though the latter half of the book focuses on the limitations of geisha and why Iwasaki eventually retired.

    While she certainly had her fair share of tense moments and poor experiences (with, let's be honest, usually shitty men as well as Westerners), and she doesn't depict her time as perfect or untroubled, it's hard to use Iwasaki's life as an accurate depiction of the average geisha's. The privileges she was afforded by her essentially celebrity status and wealth definitely kept her insulated and safe.

    Admittedly, Iwasaki was placed in a bit of a tough position, with the pressure of defending geisha culture to Western audiences resting pretty much entirely on her shoulders, so her more safely uncritical perspective made a lot of sense. I would be interested to hear more testimony from a more "average" geisha, but sadly don't think the Western publishing industry would share my interest.

    Great for an introduction to geisha culture and the realities of the profession, but not exactly a memoir to write home about.

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