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Cats causing schizophrenia (via the parasite Toxoplasma gondii) is a plot twist I didn't see coming. 😯 Sorry cat lovers, I cannot unlearn this information.
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The Millicent Quibb School of Etiquette for Young Ladies of Mad Science (The Millicent Quibb School of Etiquette for Young Ladies of Mad Science, 1)
Kate McKinnon
Post from the Never Home Alone: From Microbes to Millipedes, Camel Crickets, and Honeybees, the Natural History of Where We Live forum
Cats causing schizophrenia (via the parasite Toxoplasma gondii) is a plot twist I didn't see coming. 😯 Sorry cat lovers, I cannot unlearn this information.
stephaniek commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
Something funny Like makes you LAUGH Almost all the books I have can send me into a depressive episode and I need to fix that
stephaniek commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
i'm looking for sports romance series suggestions—baseball or soccer, please. my reading list is already overflowing with hockey and football romances, so i need a new athletic universe to obsess over. drop your favourites.
stephaniek finished reading and wrote a review...
When I first read this book at age 22, I was blown away by Vonnegut's writing style. It holds contradictions so effortlessly: humorous yet somber, sly yet direct, harsh yet compassionate.
Within those contradictions, he captures the duality of trauma so well. He shows how pain can make you both laugh and cry, sensitize and desensitize you. It's immersive, portraying the horrors of an event through the coping mechanisms it triggers - escapism, denial, dissociation, etc. - rather than pages of description that feel artificial against lived experience, since a traumatized mind has a tendency to suppress details.
No other book puts you in the footsteps of someone with PTSD like this one. It's both darker and lighter than many war books, a sharp slap in the face that makes you smile.
I continue to admire that aspect of Vonnegut's writing now, at age 39, as I did then, but I've also grown weary of other qualities like his treatment of women, often objectified and dismissed. The casual misogyny is typical of his time, though, so you could argue it's authentic - irritating but also real to life.
Maybe it's strange to call this book real and authentic since it deals so much with absurdity, aliens, and time travel, but a lot of human experience is absurd. Our ways of coping with death and cruelty, as well as our reasons for being cruel and causing death, can be utterly nonsensical.
Few authors point out the absurdities of violence as skillfully as Vonnegut does. Although some of his views might be dated, his satire remains as relevant today as ever, powerful and on point.
stephaniek commented on a post
Derby spoke movingly of the American form of government, with freedom and justice and opportunities and fair play for all.
Does that line hit differently in 2026 than in 1969? It was probably satiric back then as well, but it feels more painful now. I'm wondering... Have things really changed, or only our awareness of injustices?
Post from the Never Home Alone: From Microbes to Millipedes, Camel Crickets, and Honeybees, the Natural History of Where We Live forum
Didn't expect to find existential comfort in a chapter about cockroaches, pesticide, and evolution 💀
Evolutionary biologists know that every species eventually goes extinct. We will too. They know that in our absence, evolution will continue as it long has. It will be punctuated by the occasional disaster as it long has been, and yet it will tend inevitably towards more diversity, more kinds of life, as has happened after every major extinction or major change in the evolutionary past. ... There is horror in such a view of life, the horror of the end of our kind, but there is also a kind of solace in knowing that life will go on without us and will offer up forms of existence we have yet to imagine...
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Derby spoke movingly of the American form of government, with freedom and justice and opportunities and fair play for all.
Does that line hit differently in 2026 than in 1969? It was probably satiric back then as well, but it feels more painful now. I'm wondering... Have things really changed, or only our awareness of injustices?
Post from the Slaughterhouse-Five forum
There was a picture painted on the door of the refrigerator... It was a picture of a Gay Nineties couple on a bicycle built for two.
I imagined two guys on a tandem bicycle from the 1990s, realized that was impossible since this book was published in 1969, so I looked up what Gay Nineties means. It's a nostalgic term for the 1890s. Realized I didn't care. In my mind, the couple remains queer.
Post from the Never Home Alone: From Microbes to Millipedes, Camel Crickets, and Honeybees, the Natural History of Where We Live forum
Both cicadas and dragonflies have tiny knives on their wings that dice bacteria to bits.
Favorite fact in this book so far 🦠⚔️
stephaniek commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
We finally have a snow day where im from!!!!!!❄️❄️❄️❄️ And i really want to read something in winter setting because i love snow so much🥹 It can be anything but thrillers and horrors are prefered or even a standalone fantasy!! Please please if you have any recs🙏🙏🫶
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A Winter Book
Tove Jansson
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So far the humor in this book has been hit-or-miss for me, but this ending from Juliet's POV made me laugh: Several years later you run into that dude you punched at the party. Turns out his name literally is Romeo (hilarious), but despite that he's one of the more charming people you've met. You date for several months and both your parents are against it but who cares? Everything's going great until someone new catches his eye and he dumps you overnight. Glad you didn't rush into that one, huh??
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"Billy had a framed prayer on his office wall which expressed his method for keeping going, even though he was unenthusiastic about living. A lot of patients who saw the prayer on Billy's wall told him that it helped them to keep going, too. It went like this:
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN, AND WISDOM ALWAYS TO TELL THE DIFFERENCE.
Among the things Billy Pilgrim could not change were the past, the present, and the future."
The Serenity Prayer has always hung in my parents' kitchen, so this reference is both sweetly nostalgic and darkly delightful to me as an agnostic adult.
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Hi everyone! I’m looking for some magical realism recs (not fantasy). Some examples that I’ve read and enjoyed are the Inkheart series, Seven Year Slip, and Unmaking of June Farrow. I love the subtle elements of magic in these.
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