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This is the first book I keep pausing to check the forum several times a day, not only to see other reactions but also to get a breather and feel like I'm not alone in this insanity. I dunno if I could read this book otherwise because it's brutal, and I'd constantly want someone I could turn to and say, "Are you reading this???"
So thank you Boundlings for all the discussion so I don't feel isolated in this experience! 🖤
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"Her happiness came at the cost of mine." 💔💔💔
This is a different scenario, but it always bothers me when family vloggers say, "When they get older, they can make their own decisions" in reference to being filmed. This part highlights how experiences like this can negatively affect children while they are still young, and simply giving them a say when they are older is not enough. I do not care if this fame benefits your child's financial future or if you're greedy, your future. Prioritize their safety and well-being above all else.
stephaniek commented on crybabybea's review of It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
i had hope because the preface started with a message from Dr. Ramani in which she wanted to make a dedicated effort to move away from the loaded "narcissistic" label and call behaviors "antagonistic", but then the rest of the book didn't really commit to that and continued to use narcissism/narcissistic abuse as blanket terms. i wish these books would simply talk about emotional abuse and manipulation and gaslighting without attaching them to the "narcissist" label which has become more of a buzzword that flattens NPD with abuse.
that being said, this would be an okay book if you are just in the beginning of understanding that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship. i understand that this more accessible language is a lot easier to digest. this is a good validation for victims that they are not capable of changing their abuser's behavior, only their own. there's a lot about radical acceptance, affirmations, and setting boundaries which is useful.
i think for those already well-informed on emotional abuse, the title and therefore the content risk becoming a thought-terminating cliche that can keep someone stuck in the cycle longer. "it's not you" is a great affirmation when you are just starting to detach from an emotionally abusive relationship, but imo is not a great mentality for long-term healing, and not what i was searching for at this point in my journey.
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Post from the The Death of the Moth and Other Essays forum
This collection seems to start and end with interesting essays, with pages of reviews sandwiched in between that were dull to me. Getting through those mid essays was a real slog, but now that I've reached the end, I'm getting a burst of endorphins and excitement, as if I've climbed a mountain for a beautiful view.
If you've reached this point, congratulations!! YOU MADE IT!!

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I love how these chapters are composed as immersive vignettes so you're experiencing two layers through every scene: an innocent child's perspective and her adult self, hiding daggers of dark humor between the lines. It also makes each chapter feel like vivid memory, as if we're in therapy with her dipping repeatedly into the past.
I read that some people wanted more self-reflection, essentially a stronger adult tone and less childlike language, but I actually find this approach very compelling and true to life. To me, just the fact that she's able to recall so many details, layered with sarcasm, shows an incredible amount of reflection and growth. If I were her, I would've wanted to forget everything, block it all out, so I have immense respect for this structural choice. It's very confrontational.
Post from the I’m Glad My Mom Died forum
I love how these chapters are composed as immersive vignettes so you're experiencing two layers through every scene: an innocent child's perspective and her adult self, hiding daggers of dark humor between the lines. It also makes each chapter feel like vivid memory, as if we're in therapy with her dipping repeatedly into the past.
I read that some people wanted more self-reflection, essentially a stronger adult tone and less childlike language, but I actually find this approach very compelling and true to life. To me, just the fact that she's able to recall so many details, layered with sarcasm, shows an incredible amount of reflection and growth. If I were her, I would've wanted to forget everything, block it all out, so I have immense respect for this structural choice. It's very confrontational.
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stephaniek commented on a post from the Pagebound Club forum
What was the last book/series/show/movie/etc that made you cry? Sometimes you just need to let it all out (asking for a friend) ((the friend is me)) (((a good cry sounds nice for general emotional regulation Yanno)))🥲💧
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An introduction to Memoir & Biography, these books are part of the cultural zeitgeist or the 'canon' that many would recognize. Look for more niche titles in later Starter Pack volumes.
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Dramatic battles, tense political intrigue, unique world building...and is that maybe some romance I'm sensing? These books are not Romantasy but focus primarily on the SFF elements. Romance is a subplot and may not appear until later in the series, but when it does, you won't be disappointed.
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