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I read this book as a Gen Z but although I was around devices a lot, it wasn’t in the usual sense. Honest to god, I didn’t know that mobile could have apps other than educational stuff until I was probably 7/8 and even then most of what I did then was subway surfers, YouTube and Netflix. Most of our internet access was monitored and we had a family computer where we played games on weekends mostly. I did not have the traditional influence of social media until TikTok became huge and all my friends began to talk about it and even then I only got social media when I was 12 and didn’t actually use it regularly until I was 13/14. Being from where I’m from and in the schools and culture that I live in, social media was only normalised for children (ppl under 13) during Covid for the most part.
Reading this book is so interesting because it’s not unbelievable but I truly think that living in a first world country with ready access to social media and the way devices are part of the social norm is part of why it was such a huge phenomenon because most of the people I know didn’t actually have a personal device until they were 12-13 and even then so many people had parents who monitored their activity closely. Not to say that the children who did have access were absolved from this online engagement and addiction but I thought it was so interesting the way cultural and geographic differences can impact the rate at which social trends like these hit different groups of people. This was not a widespread thing until very recently where I’m from.
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Not sure how I feel about this book so far. It’s a lot of really big claims that feel like they’re reaching, so hoping it doesn’t end up going the route of Sapiens, where they’re held together with tape and rubber bands. The discussion between mental illness and technology stands out. Like yes, there may be links but also we’re also a lot more open about discussing mental health openly, and the process of diagnosing it has changed. Curious to see if this will be acknowledged or if it’s just going to be him trying to hit the reader over the head with “INTERNET BAD” the entire time
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I think moral responsibility it's very complicated. Listening to Raymond attack his girlfriend feels different from hearing him tell a story about something that already happened. We tend to judge our responsibility depending on how serious and close a situation feels, and also according to our own moral code. For some people, seeing someone mistreat a dog could feel worse than hearing a couple screaming at each other; for others, it would be the opposite. In this case, it feels like Meursault actually could have done something because the situation was happening right there.
Meursault is basically confirming that Raymond felt betrayed. Again, he doesn't make a moral judgment about what Raymond said. Judgments are natural and necessary for us because they guide our actions. If Meursault doesn't make those judgments, he doesn't really have his own moral compass. He just goes along with whatever is happening around him. Where's the line where "I don't judge" stops being neutral and becomes complicity? And this is soooo complicated to answer because our morality depends so much on the time and place we live in. Is there something inside us that gives us a sense of morality? Maybe we can think about biology. We're social beings who have always needed each other to survive, so maybe traits that helped us avoid harming our own group were more likely to survive too? Or maybe there's some kind of connection with something beyond ourselves. For some people that could be God, for others the universe. I don't know. Religions and laws were created just to regulate human behavior, so I think not everybody is very succeful doing it by themselfs.
On the other side, Marie di a judgment, but she doesn't do anything either. And that takes me back to the question from the previous chapter: why are we so focused on whether someone has the "correct" emotional or moral reaction if it doesn't change their behavior?
With Salamano, I think Meursault shows that he isn't necessarily completely indifferent to other people. He gives him practical information about the dog instead of offering the emotional comfort we would normally expect. So maybe his way of caring, when he does care, is much more practical than emotional.
Flyingsaucer commented on jordynreads's review of The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women: An Inside Look at Women & Sex in Medieval Times
I was expecting this to be much more serious and researched than it was; the excerpts from historical records was the most interesting part, and I wish that was expanded upon more.
I get the dry humour was present to keep things light-hearted, but in some instances they felt at odds with the quite serious nature of some of the stories and chapter content. I really did not like the fictional transcripts, which are meant to be funny, but often times felt reductive to the information being discussed.
Probably not worth your while, but I did think the first chapter was the best one, so you could read than and then move on.
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On a scale of one to seek therapy, how much will this book hurt me?
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Damn it did not realise this was book 3 in a series. But I love it too much. I’m going to have to finish this and back track. This is a first for me
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As someone who knows very little about the great migration because I am not American, I am very curious. This book is up my alley: history and memoir/biography. And already the book feels like a very powerful re collection of the sacrifices made by brave every day people.
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