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Reese's comparison between trans women and divorced women is so interesting, I've found these passages to be some of the most touching in the book. As a cis woman who has never experienced gender dysphoria, it's hard for me to imagine what dysphoria & transition feel like; through the divorced woman comparison, I can start to grasp a little piece of it: "I mean, they go through everything I go through as a trans woman. Divorce is a transition story...I'm talking about the ones who felt their divorce as a fall, or as a total reframing of their lives. The ones who have seen how the narratives given to them since girlhood have failed them, and who know there is nothing to replace it all. But who still have to move forward without investing in new illusions or turning bitter - all with no plan to guide them"
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Reese's comparison between trans women and divorced women is so interesting, I've found these passages to be some of the most touching in the book. As a cis woman who has never experienced gender dysphoria, it's hard for me to imagine what dysphoria & transition feel like; through the divorced woman comparison, I can start to grasp a little piece of it: "I mean, they go through everything I go through as a trans woman. Divorce is a transition story...I'm talking about the ones who felt their divorce as a fall, or as a total reframing of their lives. The ones who have seen how the narratives given to them since girlhood have failed them, and who know there is nothing to replace it all. But who still have to move forward without investing in new illusions or turning bitter - all with no plan to guide them"
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Finding this to be a bit of a slow start. Does this pick up a bit?
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The conversation around passing the last few chapters has been so eye opening, especially through Amesā eyes: watching Katrina break down his features to imagine him as a women, just as heās done to other trans women so many times; the awe and jealousy of Reese passing; analyzing Katarinaās brows and femininity. Also, so heartbreaking that William couldnāt pass and decided detransitioning was easier than living as a non-passing trans woman. Iād never considered that as part of the motivation for detransitioning.
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I am already so intrigued by this book!! And Iām only done chapter 1!!! Itās already a very complicated situation and Iām excited to see how it all turns out. I think Iām going to cry during this book because the way the author is writing about queerness and the added layers it has on all relationships has already hit me hard.
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