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Bisexually Pounded To Contrasting Degrees By The Left And Right Lenses Of My Glasses Because My Prescription Is Different In Each Eye
Chuck Tingle
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so one of my absolute favourite lore is the great tomato war, where one user posted in a forum that they read a book where one character ate a tomato like an apple, and they felt disgusted by that. it set off a massive āwarā and it was hilarious to read. jennifer from pagebound even did a list based on that.
one lore i have just discovered today is there is an āuserā called deleted. i was so confused. i saw that they got a level up badge today. i swore i saw one like 5 days ago. how the hell are they leveling up when i donāt see any activities or any books in their library? is it a user called deleted? or it was deleted but a glitch meant it kept gathering points? turns out that that is where all the points from deleted posts/comments goes to, into this one user called ādeletedā. (unless i am mistaken???)
is there anything i missed? i only know those two!
eta: oh my god i was working and came back to so many comments! i will go through them and reply but oh my god so many entertaining lores! thank you āŗļø
EatTheRich commented on Fantasy's review of Razorblade Tears
I feel like maybe it would've just been easier to love your sons?
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Witchcraft for Wayward Girls is a somewhat misleadingly-titled, harrowing, gothic story based on the real experiences of pregnant teenage girls in the 1970s, in a pre Roe vs Wade USA.
First of all, a note on the author. Grady Hendrix, if you are unaware as I was, is a cis male author. Certainly not the kind of person you would expect to tackle this topic, and it might even make you bristle, thinking a male horror author would use women's suffering for content. However, in the Acknowledgments at the end of this book, Hedrix states that the inspiration for WFWG came about when he discovered multiple female family members had bee sent to homes for unwed mothers in their youth, and then decided to process that via the medium of writing. He also mentions the research/reading he did, including The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler, and Wake Up Little Susie by Rickie Solinger, the latter to better understand 'How homes worked for black unwed mothers' (more on that later). He also consulted multiple MDs, Ob/Gyns, and those in his life who had given birth. All of this is to say that I don't believe Hendrix is using birth and female trauma for the sake of horror. It feels like it was written intentionally, and with a focus on allyship.
In contrast to the above, if you are expecting a bone chilling horror...don't. The witchcraft in this book plays an incredibly minor element to the main plot, which is just the continued and repeated suffering of the girls. A few casual edits could flip the genre from horror to literary--though i don't think that is a bad thing. Actually i think the bad thing was making this a horror at all.
Hendrix made me squirm multiple times in this book, but it was never cheap, and he never made the female body the butt of the joke. A lot of the 'action' scenes are told in a very neutral, clinical way, and that in itself, addressing the brutal reality of unmedicated and/or overmedicated birth, along with instances of period-typical misogyny and some egregious but non fantastical medical malpractice, is enough in itself to get your heart rate up.
Hendrix lays bare the reality so many girls faced, and still face today. He captures the feeling of dismissal and powerlessness, and the ways that disenfranchised girls claw back agency and rebel in whatever ways they can. What's more, is I don't think there is a single point in this book in which there is a 'correct' choice to make. There are choices made, and maybe they're not good ones, but having the freedom to choose means accepting the possibility of choosing wrong.
However, there are parts of this book which are severely lacking.
Hendrix took the time in the Acknowledgments to specifically mention he had done reading on the black female experience in homes for unwed mothers. There are 3 black characters in this book. Two adults (sisters) and one pregnant teen. There is...some kind of attempt to talk about racism, but falls to the wayside early on, and then disappears altogether when one of the pregnant girls who was the only one who had anything to say about it leaves halfway through. Zinnia's experience in the home is indistinguishable from the other (white) girls, other than occasionally being referred to as 'coloured'. Hagar, one of the adult black women, is similarly underdeveloped, and I would argue only exists to get the girls out of various binds with her special know-how (and that is a very, very tired trope).
There was a point in this book in which our main character had the chance to kill a very bad man and get away with it, but chooses not to. Killing this man would have also alleviated the suffering of another girl, which was the primary plot motivation. One of the only times a girl had an opportunity to take direct action against one of their abusers, and the FMC to chose that moment to get on her high horse!? In the end, no girls really get a happy ending--bittersweet at best. Is that true to life? Yes. Was that fun to read after 500 pages of trauma? No.
This book is highly emotional, empathetic, traumatic and at times, gory. It is not perfect, but it is a wild ride.
Trigger warnings: Pedophilia/Rape (implied/mentioned), Sexual assault (moderate/flashback), child abuse (Moderate/flashback), racism, misogyny, detailed medical procedures, detailed description of birth, blood/gore, medical malpractice. Read with caution!
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there was a post a while back about how most PB users are based in North America, so those of us around GMT are always waking up to a flurry of activity āĀ so good morning to all my friends nearby who may or may not be on PB at work rn š¤
what's the highlight of your week been (book-related or otherwise)? how are you celebrating the start of spring and the end of winter blues? are you supposed to be working right now and if so, how do you sneak in PB/reading time?
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Witchcraft for Wayward Girls is a somewhat misleadingly-titled, harrowing, gothic story based on the real experiences of pregnant teenage girls in the 1970s, in a pre Roe vs Wade USA.
First of all, a note on the author. Grady Hendrix, if you are unaware as I was, is a cis male author. Certainly not the kind of person you would expect to tackle this topic, and it might even make you bristle, thinking a male horror author would use women's suffering for content. However, in the Acknowledgments at the end of this book, Hedrix states that the inspiration for WFWG came about when he discovered multiple female family members had bee sent to homes for unwed mothers in their youth, and then decided to process that via the medium of writing. He also mentions the research/reading he did, including The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler, and Wake Up Little Susie by Rickie Solinger, the latter to better understand 'How homes worked for black unwed mothers' (more on that later). He also consulted multiple MDs, Ob/Gyns, and those in his life who had given birth. All of this is to say that I don't believe Hendrix is using birth and female trauma for the sake of horror. It feels like it was written intentionally, and with a focus on allyship.
In contrast to the above, if you are expecting a bone chilling horror...don't. The witchcraft in this book plays an incredibly minor element to the main plot, which is just the continued and repeated suffering of the girls. A few casual edits could flip the genre from horror to literary--though i don't think that is a bad thing. Actually i think the bad thing was making this a horror at all.
Hendrix made me squirm multiple times in this book, but it was never cheap, and he never made the female body the butt of the joke. A lot of the 'action' scenes are told in a very neutral, clinical way, and that in itself, addressing the brutal reality of unmedicated and/or overmedicated birth, along with instances of period-typical misogyny and some egregious but non fantastical medical malpractice, is enough in itself to get your heart rate up.
Hendrix lays bare the reality so many girls faced, and still face today. He captures the feeling of dismissal and powerlessness, and the ways that disenfranchised girls claw back agency and rebel in whatever ways they can. What's more, is I don't think there is a single point in this book in which there is a 'correct' choice to make. There are choices made, and maybe they're not good ones, but having the freedom to choose means accepting the possibility of choosing wrong.
However, there are parts of this book which are severely lacking.
Hendrix took the time in the Acknowledgments to specifically mention he had done reading on the black female experience in homes for unwed mothers. There are 3 black characters in this book. Two adults (sisters) and one pregnant teen. There is...some kind of attempt to talk about racism, but falls to the wayside early on, and then disappears altogether when one of the pregnant girls who was the only one who had anything to say about it leaves halfway through. Zinnia's experience in the home is indistinguishable from the other (white) girls, other than occasionally being referred to as 'coloured'. Hagar, one of the adult black women, is similarly underdeveloped, and I would argue only exists to get the girls out of various binds with her special know-how (and that is a very, very tired trope).
There was a point in this book in which our main character had the chance to kill a very bad man and get away with it, but chooses not to. Killing this man would have also alleviated the suffering of another girl, which was the primary plot motivation. One of the only times a girl had an opportunity to take direct action against one of their abusers, and the FMC to chose that moment to get on her high horse!? In the end, no girls really get a happy ending--bittersweet at best. Is that true to life? Yes. Was that fun to read after 500 pages of trauma? No.
This book is highly emotional, empathetic, traumatic and at times, gory. It is not perfect, but it is a wild ride.
Trigger warnings: Pedophilia/Rape (implied/mentioned), Sexual assault (moderate/flashback), child abuse (Moderate/flashback), racism, misogyny, detailed medical procedures, detailed description of birth, blood/gore, medical malpractice. Read with caution!
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Witchcraft for Wayward Girls
Grady Hendrix
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Wasnāt expecting to cry at the end of a horror novel but here we are..
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Does anyone have any specific thoughts about a (cis) man writing about pregnancy in such a way? I can't quite put my finger on it because it seemed like Hendrix put a lot of thought and research into this and the book is really well written, but sometimes I felt a little uneasy about it and it felt like overstepping in a sense? Then again, in a literary landscape in which a lot of male authors seem to forget that women have thoughts at all, it's refreshing that he manages to write women so well and with complex inner lives and motivations.
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Do Muslim Women Need Saving?
Lila Abu-Lughod
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Do Muslim Women Need Saving?
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Ain't I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism
bell hooks
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Is there a secret to attracting followers? I've been on here for 2 months and only have 2 followers. I'd love to interact more with fellow readers.
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I know a lot of people donāt like that thereās not enough horror in this horror story, but pregnancy/birth IS body horror! And the treatment of pregnant people IS horror! The witches are just a fun sprinkle of horror on top š¤·š¼āāļø
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