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Autobiography of Red: A Novel in Verse
Anne Carson
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From classic ghostly mansions to modern reimaginings of spooky house horror.
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Craving "once-upon-a-time" with a twist? These modern retellings conjure the classics & fill them with fresh magic! Mix of grim, cozy, & in-between. 💫
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Boys in the Valley
Philip Fracassi
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Boys in the Valley
Philip Fracassi
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呪術廻戦 1 [Jujutsu Kaisen 1]
Gege Akutami
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I found this quest and I've read so many of these through my adolescence, but if I mark them finished it will change my reading goal. I do want to take part in this quest and strive for more, so is there a way to change that anyone knows of?
MilaOnMain commented on crybabybea's review of It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
i had hope because the preface started with a message from Dr. Ramani in which she wanted to make a dedicated effort to move away from the loaded "narcissistic" label and call behaviors "antagonistic", but then the rest of the book didn't really commit to that and continued to use narcissism/narcissistic abuse as blanket terms. i wish these books would simply talk about emotional abuse and manipulation and gaslighting without attaching them to the "narcissist" label which has become more of a buzzword that flattens NPD with abuse.
that being said, this would be an okay book if you are just in the beginning of understanding that you are in an emotionally abusive relationship. i understand that this more accessible language is a lot easier to digest. this is a good validation for victims that they are not capable of changing their abuser's behavior, only their own. there's a lot about radical acceptance, affirmations, and setting boundaries which is useful.
i think for those already well-informed on emotional abuse, the title and therefore the content risk becoming a thought-terminating cliche that can keep someone stuck in the cycle longer. "it's not you" is a great affirmation when you are just starting to detach from an emotionally abusive relationship, but imo is not a great mentality for long-term healing, and not what i was searching for at this point in my journey.
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Ok fine I liked this. Even with the truck nuts and the country music.
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Ok fine I liked this. Even with the truck nuts and the country music.
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Hello poetry questers! I hope you're all doing well. I come bearing news of our unofficial readalong (I know I said I'd make this post tomorrow, but there is a very clear winner and I have the time now, so here we are). I’m happy to share that the winner of the poll was
You Better Be Lightning by Andrea Gibson
I, for one, am not at all shocked that this was the winner, haha! It really is an amazing collection. However, this is a relatively longer collection, so I want to ask if people would prefer that we extend the readalong and/or push it back (currently planned for the first 2 weeks of March; I chose this length initially to accommodate users borrowing copies from their libraries; I know March is coming very soon as well, and I want to make sure people have enough time to get their hands on a copy). Please, please comment if you have a strong opinion either way. That being said, I am still going to outline my original plan so y’all can (hopefully) see my vision. I’ve never participated in, nor put together, a readalong, so I truly have no idea what I’m doing and welcome all of your thoughts!
Draft plan (1-14 March?) My original motivation for doing a poetry readalong was to foster discussion, analysis, and enjoyment of poems, especially with those who are new to reading poetry. I believe the best way to do this would be to create a book forum post corresponding to each poem that everyone could then comment under. I created a schedule (see below) of when I would create these posts—this is not, necessarily, a reading schedule, though you could absolutely use it as one (I tried to create it with that idea in mind, so each day has roughly the same amount of reading). I think this would prevent flooding the forum and better foster discussions around each specific poem. I also believe this would encourage future readers to interact since there would be dedicated posts for the poems. This could very well be way overcomplicated (I tend to do that), so please let me know what you think (would it be better to just let everyone create their own posts?). I know most readalongs are more of a free-for-all, I just feel that might be too unstructured for this genre and new readers.
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Edit: (I'm going to assume that the people upvoting but not commenting are good to go with this set-up and schedule🙂↕️)